I was involved with an ongoing threesome with my b/f and g/f. The sex was great but the emotional consequences were daunting....
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not?
03/02/2011
I've been in a few. The first two were FFM, and one was MMF. They were both fun, and we'll probably do more.
03/02/2011
I've done it before and would do it again but only with the right people. It is very easy to throw off the dynamic with a 3rd person in bed so it helps to know what everyone is into and where things are going.
03/04/2011
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well sure either mfm or fmf im not pickyreally as long as my better half is inagreement
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
03/12/2011
Ash&Becca
I love the private intimacy my fiancee and I share alone. It's something you can't have if you add another factor to the mix. At least for us :]
03/15/2011
I've had several. I don't favor them over single-partner sex, but they're good if you have good partners. Sex is sex is sex.
Also, having had them, you get bragging rights.
Also, having had them, you get bragging rights.
03/15/2011
no, i'd like to, but my current boyfriend isn't into it. even if it was with another girl, he just wouldn't feel right.
03/15/2011
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my first was when i was 14, and it was with 2 other girls. i LOVED it. my bf and i have them occasionally...at first they were MFF, but now they're mostly MMF, with the occasional M,F,TS.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
we're secure enough to get away with it!!
03/15/2011
Yes I have. Why it just happened. Drunkeness gotta love it.
03/20/2011
Not yet, but it will happen eventually. Just haven't found the right person to add to our night of fun just yet.
03/20/2011
Never had one not interested, although my bf would do it if I ever agreed. I am way too jealous I could never allow my bf to be with another woman, especially in front of me. Also, my saying is, am I not good enough? because if not, then hit the door.
03/20/2011
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This exactly. Part of me is definitely interested but there's way too much baggage and potential sacrifice.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Too complicated - I'm not mentally or physically up to the challenge.
03/20/2011
Sure.
03/22/2011
No, the one time we thought about it and tried it over chat, it turned into a disaster and the guy tried to break my bf and I up to take my bf from me. Thankfully it was all online and not in person, that's why I don't really count it, but that one bad experience has pretty much turned me off from the idea.
03/23/2011
I've had a few with friends and acquaintances - they can be quite fun, provided everyone is into the experience.
03/23/2011
we haven't yet but can't wait till we do
03/23/2011
IF i was single i woudl def consider it but not when i am in a committed relationship--i have seen it go wrong too many times.
03/23/2011
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Agreed!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Too complicated - I'm not mentally or physically up to the challenge.
I am happily married and I tend to have a jealous streak in me. I blame the Leo within. The way I see it, when my husband married me, he became my territory, mine and mine alone!
I hate acting jealous; it makes me feel like crap and begin questioning trust. So, I purposefully veer far from anything I know will take me down that road. I am not saying a threesome would cause those feelings, but I am not willing to risk it. What we have is too precious to risk.
04/10/2011
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No and becayse I just have not tried it YETTT
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
04/21/2011
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I'm a Leo too - not sure the significance of it but its interesting.
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
Agreed!
I am happily married and I tend to have a jealous streak in me. I blame the Leo within. The way I see it, when my husband married me, he became my territory, mine and mine alone!
I hate acting jealous; it ... more
I am happily married and I tend to have a jealous streak in me. I blame the Leo within. The way I see it, when my husband married me, he became my territory, mine and mine alone!
I hate acting jealous; it ... more
Agreed!
I am happily married and I tend to have a jealous streak in me. I blame the Leo within. The way I see it, when my husband married me, he became my territory, mine and mine alone!
I hate acting jealous; it makes me feel like crap and begin questioning trust. So, I purposefully veer far from anything I know will take me down that road. I am not saying a threesome would cause those feelings, but I am not willing to risk it. What we have is too precious to risk. less
I am happily married and I tend to have a jealous streak in me. I blame the Leo within. The way I see it, when my husband married me, he became my territory, mine and mine alone!
I hate acting jealous; it makes me feel like crap and begin questioning trust. So, I purposefully veer far from anything I know will take me down that road. I am not saying a threesome would cause those feelings, but I am not willing to risk it. What we have is too precious to risk. less
I also believe in avoiding the things that cause issues. If I know something is going to make me mad or jealous, like you I just stay away from them.
04/21/2011
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I've had threesomes with my Master and another man. I've also had threesomes with my Master and other women. And I've even had threesomes which didn't include my Master. Threesomes can be fun!
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
04/21/2011
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The Leo significance is in avoiding the fight unless you feel threatened. Much like a lion's pride (only I would have to kill all the rest in the pride, I am guessing, to have my male all to myself I am extremely selfish when it comes to my husband). They are territorial, protective and loyal to a fault.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I'm a Leo too - not sure the significance of it but its interesting.
I also believe in avoiding the things that cause issues. If I know something is going to make me mad or jealous, like you I just stay away from them.
I also believe in avoiding the things that cause issues. If I know something is going to make me mad or jealous, like you I just stay away from them.
04/21/2011
No I have talked with my man about this subject and about how I have trust issues and thus never want to invite another into the bedroom.
04/21/2011
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I love that! That totally sums up our relationship (me & my so)
Originally posted by
Jul!a
It's just never been something my husband and I have been interested in. There's nothing wrong with other couples doing it, but we've only got eyes for each other
04/23/2011
It doesn't really interest me much, nor my guy either. It isn't that the idea isn't intruiging on its own, but we onlo have eyes for one another...
Plus, I really like focusing only on him and everything he wants. Adding a third party into the mix would be too much to deal with, I think. Movement would be restricted, attentions would have to be in two or more different places at once, etc etc. Multitasking while sweaty and aroused is not my idea of a good time.
No, I prefer my focus to be undivided.
Plus, I really like focusing only on him and everything he wants. Adding a third party into the mix would be too much to deal with, I think. Movement would be restricted, attentions would have to be in two or more different places at once, etc etc. Multitasking while sweaty and aroused is not my idea of a good time.
No, I prefer my focus to be undivided.
05/09/2011
With my best friend, actually. ^_^ Twice, though...I don't think it will ever happen again. :[
05/10/2011
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Back when I was single I almost did. However, one of the people was married and I just could not do it, didn't feel like the right thing to do. If we had all been single I would have.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
05/11/2011
Long ago we had a fmf 3some. It was alot of fun till the woman wanted to move in. Then we had to put a stop to it. I would do it again though if the chance arrives.
05/11/2011
Me and my partner have had three-sums and we enjoy it a lot.
05/11/2011
chris PA
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i was single & bisexual guy and had a threesome with a another guy and a girl and 2 girls. I enjoyed the guy girl one so much.
Originally posted by
lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
05/11/2011