If you HAD to label yourself, how would you?(Private)

Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Hetro
143  (30%)
Gay
20  (4%)
Lesbian
63  (13%)
Bi
83  (18%)
Pan
61  (13%)
Omni
3  (1%)
Bi-Curious
40  (8%)
Trans
10  (2%)
Intersexed
A-Sexual
8  (2%)
Other
42  (9%)
Total votes: 473
Poll is closed
10/11/2011
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Kkay Kkay
I'm uncertain why you included trans and intersex in a poll about sexuality.
10/11/2011
Peggi Peggi
Quote:
Originally posted by Kkay
I'm uncertain why you included trans and intersex in a poll about sexuality.
Most people associate those two terms and similar ones with sexual orientation rather than gender identity. Very common, I hear it all the time among my friends in a support group on facebook
10/12/2011
big b big b
hetro
10/12/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
A boring heterosexual, based on my track record.
10/12/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I just like people regardless of their orientation/expression /equipment.
10/12/2011
TboyTy TboyTy
I generally go with "queer." I don't much fit well into any one other category.
10/12/2011
Rossie Rossie
Always hetero.
10/12/2011
Vanille Vanille
Demisexual Lesbian.
10/12/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
Hetro for sure.
10/12/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
Always been heterosexual, and always will be.
10/12/2011
null null
Bisexual. Used to be only curious.
10/12/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
I'm bisexual. I get more options that way. I don't rule anyone out based on what happens to be in between their legs.
10/12/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Vanille
Demisexual Lesbian.
Demisexual?

Could you explain that? I have no idea what this could mean.
10/12/2011
Angelica Angelica
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Demisexual?

Could you explain that? I have no idea what this could mean.
From what I have read on queer blogs, Demisexuality is where you do not experience initial sexual attraction to someone but sexual attraction only after an emotional relationship has been established.
10/12/2011
Angelica Angelica
As for me, I know I like women but I am on the fence about men. Ive been with a few men and am still quite unsure. Oh well!
10/12/2011
js250 js250
Definitely hetero. I have no attractions for anyone that isn't male.
10/12/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Demisexual?

Could you explain that? I have no idea what this could mean.
From the infamous Urban Dictionary:

Demisexuals are characterized by a lack of sexual attraction toward any person unless they become deeply emotionally or romantically connected with a specific person or persons. The level of connection it takes for sexual desire to form is dependent on how close the relationship is rather than initial attraction. It is an orientation that is not chosen.
10/13/2011
emilia emilia
Hetero
10/13/2011
Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Demisexual?

Could you explain that? I have no idea what this could mean.
Angelica & Gunsmoke are right. -^^- It's a 'happy medium' between sexual and asexual. I only experience sexual attraction towards someone I have a very emotional attachment to. (my girlfriend being this person, of course.)
10/13/2011
AmberM AmberM
Bisexual. I do prefer women though..
10/13/2011
pkbooo pkbooo
I identify as queer. My sexual orientation is complicated, I think, so having a broad, somewhat ambiguous term describe me seems only appropriate.
10/13/2011
ehue1992 ehue1992
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
It makes me almost sad I'm the only homo-guy that voted that I'm gay
10/13/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Demisexual?

Could you explain that? I have no idea what this could mean.
I'm curious, too. I don't think I've ever heard that term before.
10/14/2011
Liz x420x Liz x420x
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
If you HAD to label yourself, how would you? Does your heart have an orientation? Do you define yourself with a gender?
bisexual =) i luv variety
10/14/2011
Teaser Teaser
Happily Hetro!
10/14/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I'd have to go with pansexual!! and PROUD. hahahaha I don't think I sould be limited in anyway.
10/15/2011
TheBadHobbit TheBadHobbit
I voted other. I like boobs and cock, not necessarily at the same time :3 but I generally choose to form hetero relationships rather than homo, when I have a choice.

That's right . . I'm bi-sexual but choose to limit myself to society's norms x.x It kinda makes me feel like a total knob. But hey, religion and personal conviction, what're you gonna do?

So generally I call myself bisexual, but sometimes qualify that with 'hetero by choice'. I'm still attracted to the lovely ladies , and the best sex I ever had was with a wonderful plus-sized budding domme, but no more pussy for me in the foreseeable future . .

As to why I still hang out in this area . . well . . I still have fond memories that I can't quite let go of
10/15/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Heterosexual for sure.
10/18/2011
Hidden Hidden
Bisexual. I always used to lock that part of me away for so long though. Online or not, it was the same.
10/19/2011
Total posts: 211
Unique posters: 198