Ladies, toys or no toys?

icelandia icelandia
I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
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11/28/2013
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edeneve edeneve
I'm not a lesbian, I'm straight & I do prefer a real body to a toy, that is, if the guy is any good. otherwise, just give me my vibes.
11/28/2013
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
My ex-girlfriend and I were a little of both. The strap-on usually only came out if one of us was very, very, very horny or drunk. Every now and then we would use a bullet vibrator.

My current boyfriend and I will do half and half as well, which I find to be very exciting.
11/28/2013
sexilexi29 sexilexi29
I love my toys, don't get me wrong, and strapping up for somebody special is one of my favorite things, but nothing beats using what you have to please your partner. It's such a fuller sexual experience and, in my opinion, feels more intimate than using toys. My female partners and I definitely use toys sometimes but they aren't the standard. I'd rather use my fingers and tongue to get a girl off than a vibrator most of the time.
12/03/2013
Tangerine Tangerine
I prefer a little of both every time. Whatever makes the moment hottest at the time
Jan 11, 11:28 am
reknit reknit
sometimes...sometimes not. depends on the moment
Jan 29, 3:21 pm
Sincerely Yours, N Sincerely Yours, N
I find the two entirely separate. Penises have these things called humans attached to them, who tend to be more uncontrollable, unpredictable, and cuddly than my toys. Toys, on the other hand, often have sensations that differ from penises. It depends on what I'm in the mood for.
Jan 29, 5:57 pm
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Vaginally I prefer my hubbies penis or fingers and like to play with toys once in a while, But I almost always prefer a vibe for my clit.
Mar 13, 4:55 pm
PadoruLover PadoruLover
I love my toys. Give me give me give me!
Mar 17, 8:28 pm
Glinteye Glinteye
I enjoy toys, but am also happy without.
Mar 29, 5:16 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by icelandia
I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
I sure cannot speak for anyone but myself, a hetero gal who loves her toys, but I do know one of my co-workers, who is lesbian and in a long term committed relationship, and she shops for toys online all the time. I have to assume she uses them!
Sep 13, 11:52 am
Vagiscrumptious Vagiscrumptious
My partner and I use toys, no shame there as lesbians! But maybe only half of the time, possibly even less. Toys can get distracting- changing functions on vibes or batteries dying, having to stop and put on a harness, etc. But they also can be a lot of fun and add variety to things and I personally am a big fan of both wearing a strap on and when my partner uses one on me. Being disabled toys can help when my energy is low but then holding and using a heavier toy or one that requires my arm/hand be in an u usual position can also be painful. She uses toys more than me because if I'm not well enough I'm an awesome dirty talker and help that way.

With all of that said there's something so good, so intimate and hot about feeling her body with my mouth and hands, feeling her orgasm while my fingers are inside of her. And sex toys just do not and will never have the same feel or the warmth of her hands or mouth on me.

I've definitely heard of lesbians who don't use toys but I'm pretty sure they're in minority. If anything I would guess lesbians often have far bigger collections than straight couples! And I think some women, believe it or not, are still not aware of their options- not all sex toys are penetrative, not all look like male genitalia and by extension not all sex shops are anti women or unfriendly to lesbians, etc. (those are some of the reasons some lesbians refuse toys).
Oct 9, 5:32 pm
SailorJulyxo SailorJulyxo
A bit of both: sometimes we use toys, sometimes we don't!

To be honest, some people seem intimated by toys, as if they by themselves aren't good enough for their partner, etc.

We find toys both wonderfully fun, and they feel good and they're pretty. It doesn't lessen our experience, and we still pleasure each other in other ways with and without toys. Oral PLUS a vibe? Definitely a good thing.
Oct 12, 4:23 pm
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