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Lesbians dating "out" Bi or Pan women

Lesbians dating "out" Bi or Pan women

charletnarouh charletnarouh
Many lesbians have an aversion to dating Bi or Pan women due to the fear of being left for a man, cheated on, etc.
If you are a lesbian of this mindset, if they are "out" of the closet to family, friends, work as Bi or Pan, does this change your mind at all?
If you are a lesbian who is open to dating Bi or Pan girls, please discuss your reasoning and how their "out-ness" affects your decision to date them.
04/09/2013
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I find those who refuse to date bi/pan folks (whether they are straight, gay, lesbian, etc.) to be pretty condescending. I can understand wanting to only date those that are out, especially if you have no interest in hiding your relationship from anyone. But bi/pan people are no more/less likely to leave or cheat in a fulfilling relationship than anyone else.
04/09/2013
J Peach J Peach
I would absolutely date a bisexual or pansexual female. There comes a point when maturity trumps preference, but I know lesbians who won't date these types of girls. Of course there's a fear of being left for a man, but there's the fear of being left for a woman in a lesbian relationship. All in all, it comes down to how strongly you feel about the person you're getting into a relationship with.
04/15/2013
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