is there like an average age that is common for people to first try binding?
I was a very confused young person, and I started at 13 ish? I also assumed that because I got along better with boys, didn't like 'girly' things, liked girls, and got off to the thought of thrusting into someone I was obviously a transgender and was going to get a sex change when I grew up. I had a skewed view of sexuality, and now know that there are pleanty of ladies out there who like thrusting into other people, and that in no way means that they're guys.
I didn't like having boobs because people started treating me differently when they started coming in. lol So I wore sports bras and sometimes taped them down when I was about 12. When I was 15, I watched Star Wars Episode 2 and found out girls could be hot AND just as awesome as guys, so I actually started liking my boobs.