Big event, if it's from friends!
I love when they remember it and want to throw me parties, or spank me or bake me a cake or something.
If it's from family, I like it kind of low profile. I don't like my family to meet my friends because I know they would just disapprove of them. I just want a few quick but wanted presents from my family and acknowledgement that happened--- not even usually food, and that's it