Sure have! The first Valentine's Day after we got married. I was quite pregnant at the time, but wanted to surprise my man with some lingerie since he had never seen me in any. So I told him we were off to do some shopping. We tried a few places I thought would work, but I was too large for any of the sizes in the stores we went in to. It hit me kind of hard.
We ended up at Kmart of all places, and they actually had a few things that worked out for me. We bought them, and made our way home. So, for Valentine's Day, I made sure everything was just right; my husband was in bed waiting for me, we had candles lit, and he was about to see me in lingerie for the first time. I turned the corner into our room and he looked pleased to see me. But when I got into bed, it was like I wouldn't excite him. He ended up not being able to make love to me and I turned into a blubbering mess. It hurt me so much because it wasn't easy for me to do this for him, especially after going to so many places where the clothes didn't fit me right, and because he knew that similar things had happened with my ex husband and so this was that much harder for me.
Needless to say, it was pretty horrible. I felt disgusting and hurt and he got mad at me for feeling that way. It wasn't a good day at all!!!