Being Friendly

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Being Friendly

PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Is it difficult for you to be friendly to people you don't care for? Do you consider it good manners or being fake?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
It's easy for me to be friendly, no matter how I feel about someone
padmeamidala , sunkissedJess , nikki0668 , wildshores , TheirPet , mjtheprincess , m-fantasy , SneakersAndPearls , unicorn64 , Jenyana , bratcat , KinkyKatieJames , LAndJ , jr2012 , MrWishyWashy
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It's a little tough sometimes, but I try my best
MrWill , Trysexual , Hummingbird , XYCopperheadSly , Hazeleyes2012 , Lowl , Kissy , Eloquence0 , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Pixel , ShadowedSeductress , SoSexxxay , Missy27 , married with children , Rossie , ZZ , Jordan B , Ryuson , SourAppleMartini , wwwww , Marie Hanna , vittmsk , gsfanatic , Wicked Wahine , Noelle , Cosmonaut , Pete's Princess , Allstars316
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I don't really care, I'm not going to be friendly to someone I don't like
bayosgirl , RedFreak , Lowl
3
Other
and...
mjtheprincess , Pixel , LAndJ
3
I consider it to be good manners
XYCopperheadSly , nikki0668 , Sbmsvschoolgirl , Pixel , SoSexxxay , Missy27 , bratcat , Rossie , ZZ , KinkyKatieJames , Wicked Wahine , jr2012
12
I consider it to be acting fake
It depends
Allison.Wilder , Trysexual , Korreline , wildshores , mjtheprincess , ShadowedSeductress , SneakersAndPearls , U3H , LAndJ , Pete's Princess
10
Total votes: 71 (48 voters)
Poll is closed
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padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Is it difficult for you to be friendly to people you don't care for? Do you consider it good manners or being fake?
It's pretty easy for me to be friendly to most people.
04/16/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm not naturally a very friendly person, but I can do it if the person is nice to me. If we don't get along, on the other hand..I won't fake it!
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Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Is it difficult for you to be friendly to people you don't care for? Do you consider it good manners or being fake?
I don't go out of my way to be friendly, just civil. I can be civil to people I don't like because I was raised to be polite to people, regardless of how I feel about them. I will probably be thinking about how much I dislike that person while being nice, but that's that.

If I'm being rude to someone, you can be damn sure that there's a really good reason for it.
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Trysexual Trysexual
In general I am polite, but I don't fake that I like someone typically.
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sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
I consider myself a very polite person, but I also speak the truth. I can't be fake, it's just not in me.
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Hummingbird Hummingbird
It can be tough sometimes but I try my very best to treat others as I would like to be treated. Actually I find it easier to be "nice" to someone I've had a conflict with - having seen them for who they are makes it easier. My boundaries are more defined with them.
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XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Despite all the hateful stares and laughs thrown my way, I try to maintain a good attitude and be polite as possible.
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RedFreak RedFreak
only if its someone i realllllyyy don't like or have to be nice too i could careless about them or how i make them feel. pssshhh
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Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
I'm not real great at hiding my emotions when I don't like someone....
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Lowl Lowl
I'm not gonna be nice to someone i don't like
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nikki0668 nikki0668
I try to be nice to everyone.
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Kissy Kissy
I am friendly to a lot of jerks, I work in customer service!
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TheirPet TheirPet
It's easy for me to be nice even to people I'm not fond of. Sometimes I'm especially nice to those I'm not fond of. Kill them with kindness.
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js250 js250
I am always friendly to everyone. Sometimes it si nice to brighten someone elses day!!
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mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I'm almost always friendly. I work hard to not be fake friendly. You can be honest with someone without being rude and still have good manners.
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Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I hate drama and conflict, so I try to be friendly with everyone no matter how I feel about them. I don't usually consider it being fake, I just try to be civil to people to avoid the drama and conflict.
04/16/2013
m-fantasy m-fantasy
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Is it difficult for you to be friendly to people you don't care for? Do you consider it good manners or being fake?
It is not difficult to be friendly
04/16/2013
Pixel Pixel
If I really dislike someone, but they are part of my group of friends I hang out with, I will try to be polite. It's usually hard, but it's better to be nice and not make things difficult or awkward for everyone else in the group.
04/16/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I try my best, but I don't always succeed. As far as whether or not it's fake, well that depends. There are situations and places where being rude to someone you dislike isn't appropriate, like work. It's not fake if you're being polite and just doing whats necessary to make your life easier.
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SoSexxxay SoSexxxay
It's in my nature to despise/fear most people. I worked retail for over a decade, and while this has fueled my hatred, it's also given me insight into how it feels to be treated like shit, so I go out of my way to be friendly and polite to most people... unless they're being douchebags.

Like the dude today at the mall who loudly used a racial slur in the crowded food court.. I totally went into my high school bully mindset (yeah, I was kind of a bully, unfortunately, but as a defense mechanism) but he deserved it.
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married with children married with children
I try to always be nice, even if I dont like the person.
04/17/2013
bratcat bratcat
I feel that i'm very friendly, even if i dont particularly care for the party i am associating with, as i like to go by that "golden rule" of treat others how you would like to be treated (with respect and decency). But if a person starts to get snarky or rude, i will usually just leave/ignore them, until they address me in a better manner.
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Rossie Rossie
I try my best to be friendly, unless the person's a real a@@hole!
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Jordan B Jordan B
My girlfriend had this friend who I hated but I did my best to be nice to her for my girlfriends sake. She often had to remind me to be nice though. It is tough.
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Ryuson Ryuson
I try and be friendly to everyone, but sometimes I get a little bit... snippy if the person is really grinding my gears!
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Gdom Gdom
I'm can turn on the friendliness like a light switch, whether I know the person or not. That said, I prefer not to be overly friendly with people I don't know (although I'll still be polite and thankful, especially with people in service jobs). Actual friendship is something that has to be earned.
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SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I try my best to be friendly but it doesn't always work.
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KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I was raised to be friendly to everyone, regardless of personal feelings. It comes natural to me now.
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Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I try really hard to be friendly to everyone. I don't think its fake just good manners.
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