So, my boyfriend really shows no interest in my Eden stuff. Therefore, I have always focused solely on what will make me happy. Then, I ran across the "makeup" section on Eden. I realized that I don't even consider that there might be new products that won't intimidate him (the warming and cooling balms perhaps). I realized I don't think about what he wants from sex at all, which makes me feel bad. Do you ever get so caught up in orgasming/ejaculating that you forget about what your partner is feeling or don't take them into consideration?