Do you ever get so concentrated on your preferences that you forget about your partner?

ViVix ViVix
So, my boyfriend really shows no interest in my Eden stuff. Therefore, I have always focused solely on what will make me happy. Then, I ran across the "makeup" section on Eden. I realized that I don't even consider that there might be new products that won't intimidate him (the warming and cooling balms perhaps). I realized I don't think about what he wants from sex at all, which makes me feel bad. Do you ever get so caught up in orgasming/ejaculating that you forget about what your partner is feeling or don't take them into consideration?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I sometimes get caught up in my own orgasm/ejaculation.
5
I put myself into my partner's shoes often.
3
I buy stuff from Eden that my partner wants even if I won't use it.
5
My partner has brought things into the bedroom without considering what I like.
My partner has brought things into the bedroom that I don't like (though he/she thought I would).
1
I have brought something into the bedroom without considering my partner.
I have brought something into the bedroom that I thought my partner would like, but he/she didn't.
3
Other.
5
Total votes: 22 (13 voters)
Poll is closed
04/14/2012
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js250 js250
I do by him things, but men do not have the selection women do. I usually buy for myself with a few things for him tossed in. Sometimes a good thing for him and little ones for me.
04/14/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
my last partner was much wealthier than i was. he ended up buying me lots of toys even if he wasn't using them with me. mostly I jsut get stuff for my self or to review. we did pick out some anal play items for us to use together though..
04/14/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
nope
04/14/2012
Badass Badass
My boyfriend doesn't care either way. He gets excited when I get excited. Like waiting for my Jopen Intensity.. it doesn't do anything for him, but he asked me if it had come yet? Because he knows how excited I am over it... And how strong my kegels are about to be.
04/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Since my wife will not participate in picking toys, I'm left to guess what she's going to like. My batting average in pretty good - but I have had a few strike outs. She's had countless orgasms because I've been willing to take those risks - so she's finally stopped asking not to buy more toys.
04/14/2012
Elnoa Elnoa
I am guilty of this. My husband doesn't seem to mind.
04/15/2012
Calla Calla
I have the opposite problem. I end up focusing only on his pleasure instead of my own.
04/15/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I am single so i focus mostly on me but i have s friend with benefits so sometimes i think about him.
04/15/2012
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Unique posters: 9