I don't feel like we waited too long to first become intimate, but sometimes I'm afraid that we've waited too long in between times having sex. I love him, but I know we're long out of the passion stage. This isn't a bad thing: I'm very comfortable in my relationship with my boyfriend, and I don't want to be with anyone else. And when we have sex, it's fantastic. But we live in a long-distance situation, so it isn't always possible. We go for months at a time without being with each other, and it sucks.