If someone compliments you as a comment on a review, does it make you uncomfortable?

KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
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Not at all. Feel free to compliment.
36
I'm ok as long as the compliments aren't sexually explicit.
8
I'm a little uncomfortable.
2
I'm neutral
It bothers me. No compliments please.
I'm sure I missed something, so.. other!
3
Total votes: 49 (46 voters)
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js250 js250
When others left compliments for me on my lingerie reviews I was flattered and appreciated them. However, if they would have been in a rude or overly crude style--then no. It is all in the context and most people appreciate the boost in confidence gotten from a sincere compliment.
05/13/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I actually make it a point to tell others that they look nice in something when it comes to lingerie reviews. I know that I don't have the best self esteem and if I see something that looks nice on someone, I would hate for them to think that they don't look good in it.

As far as others complimenting me, whether it's on the review style, information, photos, or how I look in a piece of lingerie - it totally makes my day! It feels so good that someone else appreciated something I was able to contribute.
05/13/2013
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by js250
When others left compliments for me on my lingerie reviews I was flattered and appreciated them. However, if they would have been in a rude or overly crude style--then no. It is all in the context and most people appreciate the boost in confidence ... More
Exactly! Well said
05/13/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
js250 and PropertyOfPotter covered it for me! I really love getting a genuine compliment.
05/13/2013
GONE! GONE!
I occasionally compliment people in reviews when they go through the trouble of putting something on so people can see how it fits, I hope I don't come off as a creeper. D: A lot of people on here are genuinely nice-looking and good at picking out flattering stuff too.
05/13/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
Most people here post themselves in lingerie because they want to give the best look they can at the lingerie. If they were squeamish about being complemented they probably wouldn't! I doubt any of the folks here would think it weird or stalkerish unless you followed with some suggestions about what you'd do to them in bed or something!

Besides it beats being told you look like crap in that outfit.....
05/13/2013
tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
I love it when I get compliments from people on my review
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A&M A&M
It's good to hear you are doing something right.
05/13/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No it does not bother me I find it flattering and will thank the person. I also do it myself and would hope if someone did not like it they let me know. So far I have not had any complaints and if I do please tell me.
05/13/2013
Soulsekrou Soulsekrou
As long as your not super hitting on someone then I see nothing wrong with it. lol. I do that.
05/13/2013
sunnyc sunnyc
As long as the compliment is giving nicely I have no problem with it
05/13/2013
Pixel Pixel
I'm fine with something along the lines of "Oh, that looks nice on you/flatters your curves, etc.". Sexually explicit comments are not ok or something I would be happy or comfortable with.
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married with children married with children
not at all. but then I have never cared what people think or say about me.
05/13/2013
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
That's why I put them on.
05/13/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I actually make it a point to tell others that they look nice in something when it comes to lingerie reviews. I know that I don't have the best self esteem and if I see something that looks nice on someone, I would hate for them to think that ... More
I agree, compliments make my day! And I also don't have the highest self-esteem so I try to make a point of complimenting others.
05/14/2013
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I agree with what js250 and PropertyOfPotter said. Compliments are nice to receive, and for someone like me who has very low self-esteem, it's nice to know that others think I look nice, even when I feel like I look really bad.
05/14/2013
bratcat bratcat
For me, it may make me a little uncomfortable, as a review is not about me but rather my experience with the item in question. So long as the remark is not rude, sexual or explicit and just a "you look good in this," then it's something i would be okay with.
05/14/2013
bratcat bratcat
For me, it may make me a little uncomfortable, as a review is not about me but rather my experience with the item in question. So long as the remark is not rude, sexual or explicit and just a "you look good in this," then it's something i would be okay with.
05/14/2013
Ryuson Ryuson
If someone's like "You're a cutie!" or "You have a cute butt!" I just smile, but if I got a comment like "You make me want to hold you down and lick you, you sex kitten" or something... I don't really like those.

I usually just say something like "This looks great on you" or "You have a nice face" or something neutral. I try not to creep people out when I complement them.
05/14/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
No, if I post a picture, that leaves it open for someone to comment on it however they want.
05/14/2013
bratcat bratcat
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
If someone's like "You're a cutie!" or "You have a cute butt!" I just smile, but if I got a comment like "You make me want to hold you down and lick you, you sex kitten" or something... I don't really like ... More
oh goodness the though that anyone would think its appropriate let alone okay to say something like "You make me want to hold you down and lick you, you sex kitten," or anything along those lines, is cringe worthy and i hope they we're flagged and reported. While compliments can be nice like "you have a cute smile," that crosses a very bold, ridged, defined line. I understand this is a site where people can ad have been very opened about their sexual experiences/fantasies it is still done with respect and comments like that are just rude, intrusive and disrespectful. GROSS!
05/14/2013
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
If people didn't want you to look or comment they wouldn't use their image to model the products they are reviewing.
05/14/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
Compliment me all you like, Eden!
05/14/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I don't have any pictures of myself in lingerie on this site... But if I did and someone commented saying they liked how I looked, I'd feel flattered.
05/14/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by HarlequinBunnie
If people didn't want you to look or comment they wouldn't use their image to model the products they are reviewing.
Exactly. What the heck is wrong with a compliment.
05/14/2013
Sera26 Sera26
I like receiving compliments. I've never received a crass comment on EF.
05/14/2013
Cinnyree Cinnyree
i always compliment how good lingerie looks on a real human. II hope if it makes them feel uncomfortable they would pm me
05/14/2013
Vanille Vanille
If I was confident enough to model something for a lingerie or other clothing review, I certainly wouldn't mind the compliments.

Seeing how I'm not, there's not going to be any room for uncomfortable feeling due to compliments.
05/14/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Thanks for the feedback everyone! Makes me feel better knowing that I (hopefully) didn't offend anyone.

For the record, I'm never crude or sexually explicit. Just a simple "You're really pretty", "That outfit looks great on you", "I love your earrings", etc. It's all genuine, but I would never want to upset anyone!
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