I honestly haven't had any desire to even be on since I think perhaps June? Though my reasoning is pretty good. I found out I was (finally!) pregnant and ended up delivering my daughter via emergency c-section 2 weeks ago, 14 weeks early of my due date.
It hasn't been a easy time and I only wanted to focus on my pregnancy (that and I had 0 libido) and it's slowly returning (the timing sucks, I can't do anything for another 4 damn weeks, and my c-section incision got infected, to which now it has to be packed and cleaned daily so no fun time for a while...)
I do notice a decline though, it's obvious even now to me. Maybe there will be new members and things will get better! But right now I don't really care...I'm only thinking about my baby who is in the NICU.