Lelo Ina 2 my new favorite and great for partner play. It was the first toy my husband was able to use quite successfully on me stimulating me more than with any other toy. I like it because it "pinches" or rather has a snug grip of the clitoris and G spot at the same time and is very powerful yet not too noisy. We have the purple one.
All I have is a basic slim vibe, but I just placed an order for a posh something or the other, can't remember the exact name! I'll let ya know if it's better, but I don't suggest the slim vibe. It was fun for a minute, but got boring quick.
Probably the we-vibe salsa or the Je joue mimi. They're hand held, easy to travel with, plenty strong, rumbly and discreet. I would never get something huge and excessive like the hitachi after getting these two.
I'm new to using toys and just ordered the Lelo Mona 2 because it was on sale. I'm planning on getting the We-Vibe Tango when I've earned a few more points here on EF. I really appreciate all of the discussion posts on EF. It's very helpful for us newbies!