Does Teen Mom send a bad message?

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Does the show Teen Mom show young girls that it's ok to get pregnant?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
3  (12%)
BobbiJay, JR, Shellz31
19  (73%)
darthkitt3n, Tagmstr, T&A1987, BlooJay, Midway through, Gold Lion, js250, grrrl, Aberrant, Lucidity, Subbi, angel142stx, PeachieClean, xGOLDx, dbm6907, ily, padmeamidala, Dragonfly Delta, gsfanatic
4  (15%)
Stormy, Coralbell, SMichelle, A.Mari
Total votes: 26
Poll is open
Feb 16, 12:40 am
TheCleansing TheCleansing
I dunno. I think modern culture itself lends itself to teen pregnancies.
Feb 16, 1:14 am
Midway through Midway through
Agreeing with the above, but I also don't really care for the show and think it's trash just like most of today's TV
Feb 16, 1:15 am
T&A1987 T&A1987
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Originally posted by TheCleansing
I dunno. I think modern culture itself lends itself to teen pregnancies.
what specifically about modern culture?
Feb 16, 1:18 am
Gold Lion Gold Lion
Yes and no. I don't think it's much worse than other media dealing with teen pregnancy (Such as movies like Juno.). If a teen is dumb enough to watch Teen Mom and think they should follow that path, then they were probably not going to turn out well anyway.
Feb 16, 1:20 am
js250 js250
I think it glamourizes teen pregnancy without showing all the pitfalls of the situation.
Feb 16, 1:21 am
grrrl grrrl
I think they it seems like it's trying to make teen pregnancy seem like a negative thing but it's really really not doing a very good job of it at all.
Feb 16, 2:10 am
BobbiJay BobbiJay
My cousin is dumb and thought she would be like the girls on this show and got pregnant thinking she would get a show too.
Feb 16, 12:27 pm
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by BobbiJay
My cousin is dumb and thought she would be like the girls on this show and got pregnant thinking she would get a show too.
Besides THIS, I can't think of any reason you would think it would be "okay" to get pregnant. These moms and their partners and families are struggling, often suffering if not completely because of the pregnancy/children then at least partially because of it. there's not a single person I've seen on that show -- although, I've only seen a few episodes -- who has a life I'd want to live.
Feb 16, 12:32 pm
Lucidity Lucidity
Makes me never wanna have a fucking kid!
Feb 16, 1:05 pm
Subbi Subbi
Quote:
Originally posted by BobbiJay
My cousin is dumb and thought she would be like the girls on this show and got pregnant thinking she would get a show too.
Wow thats actually kind of sad
Feb 16, 1:26 pm
Stormy Stormy
The tears, the tension, the uncertainty, the drama...if anyone can look at that and say "I wanna be just like that", then they probably were going to end up in a similar position with or without the show.

If parents were smart and/or simply proactive, they would be sitting there with their children discussing what they're watching. If you want to keep a kid from doing something, answer every single question they are brave enough to ask you when it comes to sex and relationships. Says the woman with no children...ha!

But anyway, I feel like if I had a show like Teen Mom when I was a teenager, things might have played out a little bit differently for me.
Feb 16, 1:31 pm
Coralbell Coralbell
Teen Mom doesn't make getting pregnant seem appealing to me at all! I don't think it glamourizes the situation, the girls have nothing but drama and problems.
Feb 16, 10:36 pm
T&A1987 T&A1987
I can't help but think that if someone can be convinced to get pregnant by a TV show, they end up getting pregnant early anyway. perhaps they'll be told that aspirin between the legs will prevent them from getting pregnant and will believe it.
Feb 16, 11:43 pm
PeachieClean PeachieClean
If parents aren't doing a good job, then yes. It sends a terrible message and kids will pick up on that. If parents do a good job of raising their kids then it won't matter how many TV shows pregnant teens get, they'll realize how difficult being a young mom is and think of that when making decisions.
Feb 20, 5:02 am
smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
I've never seen the show, but I think it could potentially glorify or romanticize teen pregnancy.
Mar 4, 6:21 pm
Beck Beck
Teen pregnancy is an issue that is from lack of intelligence on safety, immaturity on teenagers parts, and a rage of hormones. They need to have shows that educate the importance of using condoms. They shouldn't have glorified teen moms on magazines and on TV like they do, so it does show them in the wrong way, but a similar show could be beneficial.
Mar 7, 12:03 pm
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I just can't see it as being a good idea. I can understand if you don't have preventatives available, but they're so easy to get in the modern age (at least condoms), that it's hard to justify people who chose to risk pregnancy without a long term plan to deal with the children.
Apr 26, 10:40 am
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