I have to admit, getting hit on is an ego boost for me, and my partner Even though we are monogamous and committed, we enjoy getting hit on and flirted with, it makes us feel attractive, it's sort of mean actually... it's fun to tease people XD I love seeing my partner get hit on and flirted with, I'm not a jealous person and I am very trusting of him, when I see people flirt or hit on him it makes ME feel good because they want something that I have! My partner is extremely gorgeous, he gets a lot of attention, I love showing him off too, I've got bragging rights I'm extremely self conscious as I'm transsexual, so getting hit on (especially when I pass well) makes me feel great. People hitting on me who look at me as a girl... that's different. That's enraging and humiliating. Anyways. Like most people, I don't enjoy blunt sexual comments right off the bat, that's different than flirting. That's just a lack of social skills, don't be gross.