I'm currently having to choose between 2 biggest loves of my life. One is my husband who long story short is a "bad boy" ya know but is very charming and we have this animalistic lust and passion and deep connection. But he's bad for me. The other one I was engaged to for 4 years and he is a very sweet, good guy. Good in bed, but not on fire like with the hubby. But he'd be a good stable man for me and I love him dearly. Any advice? It's so hard to give up that crazy passion, but I know the right choice is the good guy. SIgh.