I don't use either of these.
My Man and I are in a fluid bonded relationship (meaning we don't have a need to avoid the other's bodily fluids because we have contact and do not have any STIs to transmit. We also have children together, which requires unprotected sex.) We don't often use condoms.
Also, I am allergic to latex, I'm a nurse and many of us were overloaded with latex early in our careers and became allergic to it. There are some non-latex condoms, but they are not made in large sizes. My Man doesn't fit into a regular size condom, so we occasionally use condoms to cover toys (not too often since I got rid of my jelly toys and my Sil-A-Gel toys, too) we rarely use condoms.
Also, the "sensation inducing" chemicals on some of these items cause irritation in my genitals. So, I would be careful with them, and stop usage if you or your partner have pain, itching, UTIs (urinary tract infections) yeast infections or other pain or problems with your genitalia or mouth or anus.
I hope you find what you are looking for.