How far will you go on a First Date?

chelly411 chelly411
On a first date I am willing to...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Kiss goodnight
9  (25%)
Have sex
10  (28%)
Only go out to eat
2  (6%)
Hug goodnight
7  (19%)
Maybe sleepover but not do anything
oral play
No touching on the first date
8  (22%)
Total votes: 36
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bayosgirl bayosgirl
Hug, kiss but no tongue. Sorry I'm old fashioned.
Mwar Mwar
I tend to like befriending guys before I date them. So, in a way, we have "dates" but they're not typical. Going on an unplanned walk together can accomplish the same things as a scheduled date, but we're still in that friend relationship.

In these scenarios, I'm still feeling the guy out. So the first time around, the most he might get is a hug.
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Depends a lot on if I knew them as friends before or if we were learning by dates
damnbul12 damnbul12
Have sex
deltalima deltalima
Originally posted by chelly411
On a first date I am willing to...
Really depends on the person and the 'chemistry'.
Rossie Rossie
Just a hug, I need to know the person more.
Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I usually have sex. If I get along well with the person and I feel some sort of connection, I'm going to try my best to get in their pants. I've tried to -not- get into someone's pants. My hormones won out.
MissCandyland MissCandyland
A kiss goodnight.
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Really depends usually I date people I have known for a bit. If it was someone I never met would probably be a hug and a kiss.
Kissy Kissy
I no longer date, so the furthest I ever went was a first date kiss
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I'm married but when I did I only kissed IF I liked him or her a lot. Sex with a stranger always seemed too crazy for me.
K101 K101
Originally posted by chelly411
On a first date I am willing to...
I haven't had a date in 6 years. (My partner and I've been together that long) but the dude would be lucky if I batted my eyelashes. No, I'm kidding. I've kissed goodnight before. I'd do nothing more though.
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I'm not opposed to sex. I don't have any set rules on what I can or can't do on the first date and it depends on a number of things, including the chemistry I feel with the person. I'm not opposed to sex if that's what feels right.
Sera26 Sera26
I'm with Intrepid Niddering, my hormones are powerful.
Trysexual Trysexual
misty82 misty82
Depends on how into him i am
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Kiss on the cheek maybe....since this is an honest-to-nature date here, with someone I might want a future with.
woodsdragon woodsdragon
It really depends on the situation...
Deeder Deeder
To me it would depend on how long I've known the individual before said date. If it's somebody that I've known for a while and have hung out with, I'd probably be willing to do more. (For example, the first date I went on with my now husband happened after we'd been hanging out for a few months; I ended up sleeping over, but it was in a recliner in his garage/TV room and we didn't do anything.)

If it we're a blind date with a total stranger? Probably just dinner and a handshake.
Cat E. Cat E.
All the way.
Zandrock Zandrock
nova2014 nova2014
Hug goodnight, I feel like there's steps to this kind of thing. Though it depends on how long you knew the person before you went on the first date also in my opinion
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 23