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I have always felt that a person who makes a conscious decision to only date certain races (or not date certain races) was racist. I am uncomfortable when people say that they are only attracted to certain ethnic groups although they are open to
I have always felt that a person who makes a conscious decision to only date certain races (or not date certain races) was racist. I am uncomfortable when people say that they are only attracted to certain ethnic groups although they are open to dating any race.
I am white and am engaged to a Chinese girl, and I have dated another Asian person in the past. She keeps saying that I must have a preference for Asians, but I don't like hearing that because I think that sounds racist.
What do you think?
I don't think its racist to say you prefer a certain group.
I mean to be honest some people are brought up a certain way to only like certain races. OR you live in certain area so you tend to like what you see on a daily basis.
I mean I know plenty of white people who prefer other white people. I hear people call them racist all the time. Yet I also know black people who are attracted to black people yet they are never called racist for some reason.
I prefer white men. Now don't get me wrong I am not racist. I just prefer white men. I mean when I was younger I prefered mexicans and black men. But I have had problems in the past and its been years since I was attracted to them. Now I am attracted to white men. I have been called racist many times for saying so. Yet I called a black man racist once for saying he hates white people and only likes black women. I got bitches out and was called a "racist little white bitch."
Does that make sense? No. You can say you are just attracted to one race. It has nothing to do with racism. I mean I have friends who are black,mexican, chinese everything. Am I racist for only going for white men? No. So I think its a bit ehh for you to say what you say.
Just my opinion. Sorry for rambling..I am not sleeping more then about 2 hours a night again. So if I come off as ehh Sorrry!