Why not go for it and ask him or do what lilmamma said
Serious question for the UNDER 30 group.
08/01/2011
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just ask him out!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Very nice young lady in my office deals with a young man in another nearby office, daily. She really wants him to ask her out. He flirts with her like crazy, in a nice way, but has NEVER asked her out...even for lunch or coffee.
She has made ... more
She has made ... more
Very nice young lady in my office deals with a young man in another nearby office, daily. She really wants him to ask her out. He flirts with her like crazy, in a nice way, but has NEVER asked her out...even for lunch or coffee.
She has made inquiries and according to the folks in HIS office, he is not married, gay, or even attached. A few think he "assumes that a girl as cute as you is attached", since he has mentioned this "cute girl" in the other office.
SO....she is torn. SHOULD SHE JUST ASK HIM OUT....point blank, or keep dropping the "hints" that she is available???
What does this generation think of it? We are older and twenty years ago, NO girl would easily ask a guy out like that...but today???? What say you? less
She has made inquiries and according to the folks in HIS office, he is not married, gay, or even attached. A few think he "assumes that a girl as cute as you is attached", since he has mentioned this "cute girl" in the other office.
SO....she is torn. SHOULD SHE JUST ASK HIM OUT....point blank, or keep dropping the "hints" that she is available???
What does this generation think of it? We are older and twenty years ago, NO girl would easily ask a guy out like that...but today???? What say you? less
08/02/2011
barely under 30 - 28. I think the rules of the workplace unfortunately prevail - do not dip your pen in the company ink! It's obvious that the two people are attracted, but he is probably trying to respect proper workplace etiquette, which is admirable. He probably wouldn't turn down a request for a date, though.
08/09/2011
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