So I've been talking to this guy since May. At first he told me he had 2 kids (which the 2 lived with him), then a few days later he started being quite and I asked him what was wrong then he told me he had another kid he was just afraid to tell me because he hasn't been the greatest dad and he was insecure about it. She lives with her mother and they was very young when they had her, I guess he got scared and ran out before she was born,after a few years he started being around her and doing as much as he could for her, but she lives in a different state so its sometimes hard. Well for the past 2 weeks hes been in the state where his daughter lives visiting with her, and hes been not so talktive, well today he tells me he has a handicap 10 year old son, and I asked why he didn't tell me he said its because its hard to see him and be a father to him. I'm not sure what kind of answer that is, and I don't understand why he lied. I don't know what to do. Im mad that he lied, and hes still not talking much he said things are bothering him and I wish he would speak up. What advice can you give me? I mean the guy is nice to me, but lying about this stuff makes me wondar what else he is lying about.I told him many times if there was anything he wanted to tell me he could, I wouldn't judge him I just don't want to be lied to. I'm young I'm only 23, hes 29. I don't have any kids, so I'm really not sure what to do. He has full custody of 2 kids a 5 and 6 year old. Not sure what to do..