Who made the first move?

shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
In the relationship you are in now who made the first move and how did it happen?
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a male - who is 'always' expected to make the first move, I was counter-intuitive. I always figured if they want it, they're going to have to make it clear, I wasn't going to fight through all the phony 'I'm not that kind of girl' pretense.

Sooner or later we find that they are that kind of girl - don't we!
Ansley Ansley
I did. I always have been the one to make the first move.
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I did, though it wasn't a challenge for me to figure out
Cora Jane Cora Jane
I asked him out for our first date because I didn't want to wait around hoping he would pick up on my hints. After that though, he took the lead.
Peggi Peggi
It was actually a fun and interesting combination of the both of us. I had added him on a social networking site, he messaged me first, we chatted a bit and then he asked for my number. We texted for a while and I made it clear that I liked him and vice versa, he was the first one to suggest we hang out, and a week after we began talking I drove up to see him on my first day off of work.

We both went in for the first hug, he was the one who wanted to snuggle, I was the first one to kiss him and we both initiated the first time we had sex.
ghent529 ghent529
I did. She was my friends well ex friends girlfriend. and he did her wrong and I really like her so I was there to pick up the pieces.. but sometimes. I think that I left some of them on the gound by accident. because she accuses me of things that he used to do all the time.. oh well we power through it
Schmidyslave Schmidyslave
He made the first move. We were at the beach underneath a blanket because it was really windy. I was laying down and he was sitting on top of me when he dove in for a kiss. I knew it was going to happen, I could see it in his eyes. Well when he leaned down to kiss me, he missed my lips and got my chin. It was funny but hell, gave us a good memory and I loved it!
js250 js250
He did--grabbed my hand put it on his crotch to show me what I did to him.
Nora29714 Nora29714
he did
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
He messaged me on a dating site, I asked him out, I kissed him, he initiated sex.
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
In the relationship you are in now who made the first move and how did it happen?
I made the first move in the relationship Im in now and am so happy I did!He is shy and Im shy so it was kinda akward but i said to heck with it and went for it!He used to come into my work..one day he made a comment on what i was gona be for halloween..thats when I knew he was interested.Come to find out he has been interested in me for a couple years!I now really truly love him to pieces..I generally have been screwed in my last experiences with guys but I truly trust him and am so glad i made the move!!
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
In all my relationships, the other person made the first move. My high school boyfriend asked me out, my first partner in college asked me if I was interested in being friends with benefits, which then developed into a relationship, and now my third partner made it clear that she was attracted to and interested in getting to know both me and my second partner.
I can maybe claim partial credit in my relationship with my third partner because I did a) offer her a massage while we were hanging out and b) invited her to a dance, but it was her openness about her feelings that gave me the nerve to make those steps.
nova2014 nova2014
My boyfriend made the first move when he kissed me while we were watching a movie
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