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Getting them to talk dirty?

LittleBun91 LittleBun91
What is the best way to get your partner talking dirty in bed?
05/09/2013
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Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by LittleBun91
What is the best way to get your partner talking dirty in bed?
If you ever find out, let me know. I think we could use a little of that in our relationship. Good luck!
05/11/2013
QueenBitch QueenBitch
Communicate with them that you want them to is the place to start.
05/11/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
i tell him straight up or start doing it to him first till he gets the hint
05/29/2013
misskat misskat
I think the best way is to talk a little dirty yourself! Don't start ridiculously dirty because that can be a little alarming but if you ease into it, they will pick up quickly!
05/29/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I just start talking to him dirty and asking him questions in a naughty little voice. That usually works.
05/29/2013
Cinnyree Cinnyree
communication is the key to every thing. just say you want to try something different to see if it works. or say you saw it on something and it turned you on.
05/29/2013
gagehale gagehale
Asking your partner to try it and make sure they are comfortable with it
08/06/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Seeing how the op is a female, guess she is referring to getting a male to talk dirty in bed. I would love it if Ow did it. Usually when I do it she tells me to stop.

As always her wish is my command
08/09/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Seeing how the op is a female, guess she is referring to getting a male to talk dirty in bed. I would love it if Ow did it. Usually when I do it she tells me to stop.

As always her wish is my command
Is that something you are really interested in? Do you think you might be able to get the Mrs. to watch an informational video on the subject?
08/09/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Seeing how the op is a female, guess she is referring to getting a male to talk dirty in bed. I would love it if Ow did it. Usually when I do it she tells me to stop.

As always her wish is my command
That's sweet, though it sucks that she won't let you try that much less try it more herself.
08/11/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Ha! Somebody, share that informational video with me, please I get SO shy when it comes to talking that it's ridiculous. I have no problem taking charge but ask me to talk dirty or tell you what I want.... (cringe)...I would rather watch a house full of screaming kids (and that's not going to happen lol).

I believe feeling comfortable is key. Probably starting out simple is good. And, if you want the dirty talk, you probably need to be able to ask for it I think what would help me out would be simple questions. My partner asking me to tell him how "this feels", "do you like it when I touch you like this", etc. That might be a good warm up and ice breaker until that comfort level is there.
08/11/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Is that something you are really interested in? Do you think you might be able to get the Mrs. to watch an informational video on the subject?
See what she holding behind her back ? That's what I get if I don't obey.

Just one of out avatar's.
08/12/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Some people just don;t know what is dirty talk and DIRTY talking. It can be a bit of an off put if they are just insulting you.
10/03/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I took my partner to a class on the subject. That helped both of us a lot. It's still a little bit awkward, but, not nearly as bad as it was before.
10/03/2015
ChasityMurvine ChasityMurvine
If anyone knows plz let me know....my husband has a terrible habit of asking me ALOT of questions during sex or uses the same phrases over and over
10/04/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by ChasityMurvine
If anyone knows plz let me know....my husband has a terrible habit of asking me ALOT of questions during sex or uses the same phrases over and over
May I share a tip that has helped me?
10/05/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by ChasityMurvine
If anyone knows plz let me know....my husband has a terrible habit of asking me ALOT of questions during sex or uses the same phrases over and over
was the same thing over and over," more, more,more " ? Or "don't stop, don't stop"? Or "d _ _ _ _ r, d _ _ _ _ r, etc
10/05/2015
ChasityMurvine ChasityMurvine
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
May I share a tip that has helped me?
Sure any tips will help
10/05/2015
ChasityMurvine ChasityMurvine
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
was the same thing over and over," more, more,more " ? Or "don't stop, don't stop"? Or "d _ _ _ _ r, d _ _ _ _ r, etc
no its more like "oh yea" "give it to me" "f**k me" just basic stuff
10/05/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by ChasityMurvine
Sure any tips will help
My tip is to create a script. This will get him use to it and then once he is more comfortable with it, switch it up. Also, ask him how doing whatever you are doing at the time feels. Don't let him stop at a simple "good", he needs to go deeper and use his words. An example could be something like this,

"Oh baby, your (insert word here) feels so good. I can't get enough of your (insert words here). I like the way you move your (insert word here) around my (insert word here). It drives me crazy the way your (insert word here) does (insert phrase here). Do you want to (insert words here). ETC"

I think you get the idea. Just be sure to tell him the words you don't like to hear. For me, it's the word T*#s, the euphemism for breasts. It sounds so juvenile to me. Anyway, that might help him.
10/05/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
was the same thing over and over," more, more,more " ? Or "don't stop, don't stop"? Or "d _ _ _ _ r, d _ _ _ _ r, etc
For the Win, is it Doctor, doctor?
10/05/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
For the Win, is it Doctor, doctor?
Lol....oh, HW and his Hang Man...
10/05/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
My tip is to create a script. This will get him use to it and then once he is more comfortable with it, switch it up. Also, ask him how doing whatever you are doing at the time feels. Don't let him stop at a simple "good", he needs to ...
Stealing your script

What other goodies did you learn in class
10/05/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
I took my partner to a class on the subject. That helped both of us a lot. It's still a little bit awkward, but, not nearly as bad as it was before.
I see online dirty talk schools for beginners are available.
10/06/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
For the Win, is it Doctor, doctor?
second letter is e Oh what the heck, so is the third letter.
Reread the orginal poster's comment.
10/06/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Lol....oh, HW and his Hang Man...
Does that mean you won't try or already know the answer. Are your red lips sealed ? btw, when are you going to start a thread of comment of your recent trip to V land. Good thing you are not there now. It's raining so hard, floods !
10/06/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by Mr. John
If you ever find out, let me know. I think we could use a little of that in our relationship. Good luck!
I want to no too!!
I only find a little alcohol and extensive oral teasing her is the only way I can get dirty talk out of my shy girls. My aggressive stripper FWBs are naturals
10/22/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by NJ casanova
I want to no too!!
I only find a little alcohol and extensive oral teasing her is the only way I can get dirty talk out of my shy girls. My aggressive stripper FWBs are naturals
No substitute for experience.
10/22/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
Stealing your script

What other goodies did you learn in class
Practice often.
10/23/2015
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