Oh no! I've always hated my partner going near my ears. He tries too, says theyre cute, but I don't like it. Mostly because when I was a kid I got the top cartlidge area pierced and it turned into a keloid the size of a quarter. Never hurt unless it was hit. I had a minor surgery to have it cut off and they only numbed the ear, didn't put me to sleep so I could hear the cutting and FEEL it! It was truly horrific. He kept cutting swearing I couldn't possibly feel it. My sister was in the room while it happened and I begged him to stop because it hurt and finally she cried and demanded he stopped. He finally realized there were nerves buried in the keloid and realized I really could feel everything. I then had to get steroid shots for a year and it went down, but came back and ever since he cut it I get serious pain in it. It's ugly and big that's why I hate my partner going near my ears. He says it doesn't bother him, but I don't see how. I just prefer he pretend it isn't there.
I like the back of my neck being kissed when I'm turned on, but the sides make me crazy because my neck is so ticklish there. Even when he hugs me and has his face there I cock my head to the side because he's always kissing there to tickle me. If I'm really turned on though, I kinda like it. My favorite is when he kisses my upper and lower back and shoulders. No idea why, but I like those areas on me.