No foreplay!

~Brittany~ ~Brittany~
My husband is not big on foreplay at all... what can I do to make him understand I need this?
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married with children married with children
Have you talked to him about this? Find out what he does not like about it. Try to find something that will work for you that he would not mind doing. My wife and I do not do foreplay that often. It is not that we dont like it, but that I have to be to bed early and she does not get done working until late. So on the nights we can have sex, neither one of us want to use up 30 minutes on foreplay.
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
My boyfriend didn't used to be into foreplay much until we had to sit down and have a long talk about it. Without foreplay, I can't get in the mood very easily and sex is not as enjoyable. After a while, he changed his ways and even though we don't usually have long foreplay sessions, we usually have them, which I really enjoy.
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Why don't you try some amazing fore play on him first, and then after, explain to him that you want him to make you feel the way you just made him feel. Communication is the key hun.
purplekidney purplekidney
He wasn't much into foreplay for a while until I told him that it got me really turned on and that's the only way that I can get close to orgasming. Once I'd told him that, he was all over it! He wants me to orgasm even more than I want to sometimes.

Communication is definitely important though. If it's really important to you, he should be willing to make an effort to include that in your sex.
Howells Howells
Hell even I need foreplay. I'm a man. I read it somewhere it's better for the penis to have an at least 10 minute erection before entering so it can "prepare" itself. Dunno how but I found that to be true. It makes me more comfortable if we play before it. Sometimes even for an hour. Why rush it
teeny <3 teeny <3
We had this problem for a while too. Recently while trying to initiate sex it didn't work for us. I wasn't wet enough for the boyfriend to insert himself and we had run out of lube. So I simply explained "you can either keep giving me more kisses or stop everything, because I'm not juicy enough to handle you right now." I got to flatter him and make my point. It was a win win!
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
you should talk to him about this. if you don't communicate, i guarantee you that you will have not only sexual problems, but major relationship problems. remind him that relationships are two way street and he needs to help like you help him; find out why he won't do it, and what you two can do to make it more appealing to him.otherwise, there's going to be a hell of a lot of bitterness.
Foreplay should be natural, at least I thought.
Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
he doesn't like foreplay and he wants to just stick his dick in your ass, tsk tsk

lol this man really needs to start listening to you, or if you haven't talked to him you really should.

Maybe don't give it up to him unless he starts doing what you need him to do.
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Communication is key.
Foreplay helps a lot, even for people like me who have an insane sex drive. Sometimes I just need something to really get me going.
ijako9 ijako9
Tell him its the best way for you to experience and amazing orgasm. Compare it to if you were to immediately stick his penis in you without him even being hard and you want him to come in the next 3 mins and be done.
Quickies are fun too, but women also like some good build up time. Try having him give you a massage while you're naked before you have sex, my wife always likes that.
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