Do you have fantasies that you would NEVER share with your partner?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm an open book. What about all of you?
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Yes, there is/are fantasies I would not share with my partner.
29  (54%)
No, I'm open!
19  (35%)
Other
6  (11%)
Total votes: 54
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12/06/2012
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sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
With previous partners I held back, but my current partner is just as open minded and eager to try new things as I am
12/06/2012
Terri69 Terri69
No, i tell him
12/06/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
I'll be honest here, yes I have fantasies I'm scared to share with my wife.
12/06/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I'm open. My gf knows my fantasies.
12/06/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
He's very accepting and openminded so I tell him everything.
12/06/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm an open book. What about all of you?
I tell everything then again sometimes i over share with others in general then act out said thing i shared with my partner
12/06/2012
Sera26 Sera26
My fiance and I share a lot of fantasies with each other. However there is one that I wouldn't just because I know it would bother him (from past conversations).
12/06/2012
burtnuh burtnuh
There are some I know he wouldn't like so I don't share them.
12/06/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm an open book. What about all of you?
I'm an open book with my Master. He knows all about my fantasies.
12/06/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We aren't at a place where we can very openly talk about those type of things. We were for a little while, but things happened that made him close up a little bit. Now we don't have an easy flow of communication, so I don't.
12/06/2012
No-nita No-nita
I wouldn't share the ones that involve other people because I know they would hurt his feelings or make him uncomfortable.
12/06/2012
js250 js250
Sexually, we share but are becoming a bit distant with each other otherwise....
12/06/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I tell Master everything I am into! Sometimes, he is grossed out, or disgusted, or slightly interested, or very interested. Over time, some of the things which grossed him out initially become things that he loves, but I don't push it. He sometimes will tell me a year later or something "Oh, remember how you brought up _______? Well, now I am interested in it too!" I am lucky to have such an open guy. I know not everyone does.
12/06/2012
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I usually tell him but there's a couple that I know would make him uncomfortable so I'm trying to slowly get him there. Baby steps!
12/07/2012
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I'm pretty open but sadly, he isn't
12/07/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
I am pretty open so I dont hold back
12/11/2012
needapacker needapacker
i have some fantasies i dont even like to admit to myself
12/12/2012
Geography Geography
I don't tell my boyfriend every fantasy. Sometimes I like to keep them just that- a fantasy! They are such good alone time fodder. I know we would have fun acting them out, but my fantasy allows me to make the scenes much bigger than in the bedroom. And I think some of them would overwhelm me if they were reality.
12/15/2012
vulvalicious vulvalicious
I would tell my husband this fantasy I have and haven't shared, but I know he would be open to it and honestly I think I just like the fantasy. I'm not sure I'd like the reality of it.
12/15/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
we usually share everything, but there are always exceptions.
12/15/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
There are a few things I don't think I'd share with my partner.
12/15/2012
Beck Beck
Yeah, I don't tell him about the guy on guy ones.
12/15/2012
Voir Voir
Yep I have some because those fantasies wouldn't be fantasies that involve either of us and are more general but with highly questionable content.
12/15/2012
MasqueVivi MasqueVivi
If I wasn't comfortable enough to just talk about all of my fantasies with a person, I don't think I'd be willing to screw them anyway. But admittedly, I am an all-or-nothing kind of person.
12/15/2012
spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by needapacker
i have some fantasies i dont even like to admit to myself
Me, too. I've told my wife all of the ones I actually want to try. We've tried most of them. But some of the things that creep into my thoughts when I'm masturbating and send me over the edge are best left unsaid.
12/18/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Open like a book
12/18/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
I'm very open with my partner.
01/17/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
No, I'm open!
01/17/2013
Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Yes, there is/are fantasies I would not share with my partner.
01/17/2013
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