Do your fights reoccur?

Zandrock Zandrock
Do you find that you and your partner continually fight over the same things? I find that often times when we fight they are of a similar topic. Anybody else find this?
07/22/2012
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Peggi Peggi
Not really, although we don't fight often really. When we do, it's over little things anyway, so they're pretty easy to resolve. In previous relationships fights tended to be about the same thing over and over again, though, and it drove me off the wall! The worst type of fights are the ones where no matter what you say, your words get changed around! I used to hate that! And it happened often...
07/22/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
for years, always the same shit. He has finally learned not to bring up the old "trash"
07/22/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We are often guilty of this. He doesn't like to resolve anything, he just wants to pretend stuff didn't happen and move on. Well, when the same thing that went unresolved happens again, obvious it's going to cause yet another issue. Tends to be very frustrating.
07/22/2012
mpfm mpfm
We had the same old fights the first 10 years of our marriage. We didn't fight often, but when we did they were predictable. Then we got smart and learned how to resolve the big issues. Life's much better now.
07/22/2012
js250 js250
We fight over the same old issues for many months to a couple of years. Once the attacker decides to overcome the issue and get our relationship back--we usually let it drop. We do go in stages, though. Depends on the issue.
07/22/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
We'll have a few fights over the same issue, and then one of us will realize what the root problem or the misinterpretation is, and it gets better. I'm also bad about being too proud about being right
07/22/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Yes, but mostly those are housekeeping issues. Because I usually remind him nicely, bottle up and then we fight because all I want is bite his head off.. But I love him.
07/23/2012
Crimson Vixen Crimson Vixen
I'm horrible with bringing stuff up over and over and over again until I feel it has been completely resolved.
07/25/2012
nova2014 nova2014
Our fights reoccur all the time because we don't really resolve it initially, especially if we're really emotional about it
02/03/2013
dos1234 dos1234
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Originally posted by Zandrock
Do you find that you and your partner continually fight over the same things? I find that often times when we fight they are of a similar topic. Anybody else find this?
Yes but it is pretty easy to be aware of which fights are going to occur again and you have to decide whether you care enough to fight that battle. Ultimately the only way that battle ends is one person has to decide that unless the issue is resolved the relationship cant continue, at which point someone has a choice to make.
02/03/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No - we don't do that. We rarely fight and when we do disagree, we state our opinions and move on - life's too short - get over it!
02/04/2013
novanilla novanilla
Yup, generally there's just those one or two things that bugs me or my partners and they come up in every fight. This has happened in all my relationships.
02/04/2013
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