How do you feel about your partner's past sexual experience?

Trillian Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I wish they had more sexual partners
9  (6%)
I wish they had less sexual partners
16  (10%)
I feel they had just the right amount of experience
8  (5%)
I am the only persone they have been with
20  (12%)
The past is the past and part of who I am and I would not change any of it
91  (57%)
Other (explain below)
16  (10%)
Total votes: 160
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kjkitty kjkitty
My boyfriend had been with two girls before me and even though he is my first and only, I am happy with his experience. I actually did not want a virgin to be my first because I wanted someone who would be experienced and know how to handle the situation. My first was a very sweet and romantic epic failure. I think if it had been BOTH our firsts.... stuff would have gone REALLY badly.
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It would have been nice if I had been my boyfriend's first as well, but I know it is part of who he is and I wouldn't change that.
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I have had way more sexual partners than I care to admit. My husband has only been with me. I wish he had been with more people before he met me. I feel a little guilty that I've had so much experience, but now that we're married, he's pretty much limited to me.

Oh I know that I could give him permission to sleep with others, but I am just not that secure. I would worry that he would fall in love with someone else. Plus I would worry about him getting a disease or getting someone pregnant.
RonLee RonLee
I trust her to tell me if there's something that I need to know. Otherwise I consider my partner's past sexual experience to be none of my business.
Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
The guy I just broke up with after 3 years would just get wasted and sleep with people, even friends' partners. Now I'm not one to judge by number, but I'm not comfortable with the way he went about it. I don't even know the full extent of it because I was always afraid to ask. I just hopelessly hope he never ACTUALLY cheated on me.
M121212 M121212
I am learning more and more about my partner's past sexual experiences and preferences. I think it's a bonding point for us.
thebest thebest
wish they had less
Shellz31 Shellz31
I personally don't care to know about a partners previous sexual encounters - as long as they are clean, then I don't have to worry about their past.
Lucky21 Lucky21
I used to get jealous about what my partners past had been, but I've gotten over that. They are with me and that is all that counts.
Rossie Rossie
I'm the jealous type, so I do not want to know about his past sexual experience at all.
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Originally posted by Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
We are both products of our past experiences, and it makes us better together. We both had active sex lives before we married, and we have now been together for almost 25 years.
Liz2 Liz2
Actually we both have had "pasts". We have been together now for over three years and still learning and growing with each other.
sarki sarki
I wouldn't change things
married with children married with children
she has only been with me, and I have only been with her. Would not change a thing.
Sinfully Sinfully
The past is the past.
Jul!a Jul!a
I know about all of his partners because we were friends for a long time before we got back together, and even though I might not like all of them I wouldn't change anything because the path that we both took with our exes brought us back together.
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I was married previously so I have a past but my boyfriend was my best friend for six years before we got together and he WAS a very sexy 25 year old virgin (score) but no matter what his past I would love him just the same anyway.
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
I am my boyfriends first. And i know it bugs him that ive had a handful of guys before him. Because hell say a comment here and there about it. But it's like what do you want me to do build a time machine and virginize myself. I told him to go sleep with another girl and come back if it makes him feel better hahaha. I know he wont but whatever.
Beck Beck
I wish I did not know that my husband slept with his ex wives sister. He did this after they were divorced, but I still feel as if this is something that you should not ever do!
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Don't really care.
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
Don't care at all. It's not a big deal.
Kkay Kkay
I'm the only person my partner has been with. It's not surprising, because he's demisexual.
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
past is the past
hearts and hardons hearts and hardons
I wouldn't want my partner to judge me about my past, so I practice the same. As long as we don't have to talk about it in detail.
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
He never had sex before me. But he had 3 other girlfriends. Sometimes I get uncomfortable when I think about it, but the past is the past.
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Originally posted by Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
I have been married to my husband for fourteen years. When we got together he was number 10 for me and I was number 6 for him. I have no issues with his number and he doesn't with mine - it's just a number. Once you get past 0-1 it really shouldn't matter - and be happy - they are with you now and that's what counts.
Jon S Jon S
we don't talk about it she doesnt care to know and i dont either
Beaners Beaners
My boyfriend was very promiscuous in high school, and even his freshman year in college viewed sex with female friends as a pretty casual thing. His number doesn't top 20 thank goodness but it's double mine, and that makes me sort of uncomfortable. Playing Never Have I Ever with him is a nightmare for me I don't want him talking about it, and he doesn't really understand why no know it's irrational and probably a little crazy of me, but I'm just territorial.
mcl272 mcl272
my better half only had 2 before me. overall, i'm happy. everyone has a past! i'd never judge him for it.
Total posts: 75
Unique posters: 74