How do you feel about your partner's past sexual experience?

Trillian Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I wish they had more sexual partners
9  (6%)
I wish they had less sexual partners
16  (10%)
I feel they had just the right amount of experience
8  (5%)
I am the only persone they have been with
20  (12%)
The past is the past and part of who I am and I would not change any of it
91  (57%)
Other (explain below)
16  (10%)
Total votes: 160
Poll is closed
07/29/2011
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kjkitty kjkitty
My boyfriend had been with two girls before me and even though he is my first and only, I am happy with his experience. I actually did not want a virgin to be my first because I wanted someone who would be experienced and know how to handle the situation. My first was a very sweet and romantic epic failure. I think if it had been BOTH our firsts.... stuff would have gone REALLY badly.
07/29/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It would have been nice if I had been my boyfriend's first as well, but I know it is part of who he is and I wouldn't change that.
07/29/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I have had way more sexual partners than I care to admit. My husband has only been with me. I wish he had been with more people before he met me. I feel a little guilty that I've had so much experience, but now that we're married, he's pretty much limited to me.

Oh I know that I could give him permission to sleep with others, but I am just not that secure. I would worry that he would fall in love with someone else. Plus I would worry about him getting a disease or getting someone pregnant.
07/29/2011
RonLee RonLee
I trust her to tell me if there's something that I need to know. Otherwise I consider my partner's past sexual experience to be none of my business.
07/29/2011
Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
The guy I just broke up with after 3 years would just get wasted and sleep with people, even friends' partners. Now I'm not one to judge by number, but I'm not comfortable with the way he went about it. I don't even know the full extent of it because I was always afraid to ask. I just hopelessly hope he never ACTUALLY cheated on me.
07/30/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
I am learning more and more about my partner's past sexual experiences and preferences. I think it's a bonding point for us.
07/30/2011
thebest thebest
wish they had less
07/30/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I personally don't care to know about a partners previous sexual encounters - as long as they are clean, then I don't have to worry about their past.
07/31/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
I used to get jealous about what my partners past had been, but I've gotten over that. They are with me and that is all that counts.
07/31/2011
Rossie Rossie
I'm the jealous type, so I do not want to know about his past sexual experience at all.
08/01/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
We are both products of our past experiences, and it makes us better together. We both had active sex lives before we married, and we have now been together for almost 25 years.
08/01/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Actually we both have had "pasts". We have been together now for over three years and still learning and growing with each other.
08/01/2011
sarki sarki
I wouldn't change things
08/01/2011
married with children married with children
she has only been with me, and I have only been with her. Would not change a thing.
08/02/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
The past is the past.
08/02/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I know about all of his partners because we were friends for a long time before we got back together, and even though I might not like all of them I wouldn't change anything because the path that we both took with our exes brought us back together.
08/02/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I was married previously so I have a past but my boyfriend was my best friend for six years before we got together and he WAS a very sexy 25 year old virgin (score) but no matter what his past I would love him just the same anyway.
08/02/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
I am my boyfriends first. And i know it bugs him that ive had a handful of guys before him. Because hell say a comment here and there about it. But it's like what do you want me to do build a time machine and virginize myself. I told him to go sleep with another girl and come back if it makes him feel better hahaha. I know he wont but whatever.
08/02/2011
Beck Beck
I wish I did not know that my husband slept with his ex wives sister. He did this after they were divorced, but I still feel as if this is something that you should not ever do!
08/02/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Don't really care.
08/03/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
Don't care at all. It's not a big deal.
08/04/2011
Kkay Kkay
I'm the only person my partner has been with. It's not surprising, because he's demisexual.
08/04/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
past is the past
08/06/2011
hearts and hardons hearts and hardons
I wouldn't want my partner to judge me about my past, so I practice the same. As long as we don't have to talk about it in detail.
08/08/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
He never had sex before me. But he had 3 other girlfriends. Sometimes I get uncomfortable when I think about it, but the past is the past.
09/08/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
I have been married to my husband for fourteen years. When we got together he was number 10 for me and I was number 6 for him. I have no issues with his number and he doesn't with mine - it's just a number. Once you get past 0-1 it really shouldn't matter - and be happy - they are with you now and that's what counts.
09/08/2011
Jon S Jon S
we don't talk about it she doesnt care to know and i dont either
09/08/2011
Beaners Beaners
My boyfriend was very promiscuous in high school, and even his freshman year in college viewed sex with female friends as a pretty casual thing. His number doesn't top 20 thank goodness but it's double mine, and that makes me sort of uncomfortable. Playing Never Have I Ever with him is a nightmare for me I don't want him talking about it, and he doesn't really understand why no know it's irrational and probably a little crazy of me, but I'm just territorial.
09/08/2011
mcl272 mcl272
my better half only had 2 before me. overall, i'm happy. everyone has a past! i'd never judge him for it.
09/08/2011
Total posts: 75
Unique posters: 74