the past is the past
How do you feel about your partner's past sexual experience?
02/14/2013
The past is the past.
02/14/2013
The past is the past.
02/14/2013
I would not want to change the person he is.
02/15/2013
As long as they are faithful I don't care what the number is.
02/16/2013
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My past sexual experience, I think, is more awesome. Lol. If it's the other way around, I don't know how I'll feel.
Originally posted by
Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
02/16/2013
I'm his first and I had one partner before him. I'm happy about how things worked out because things probably would've been awkward if neither of us knew what to do.
Plus, I was really drawn to his innocence when I met him. I guess I wanted to be the one to corrupt him.
Plus, I was really drawn to his innocence when I met him. I guess I wanted to be the one to corrupt him.
02/27/2013
I don't really care one way or another.
02/28/2013
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i know how many people and who he has had experiences with, but he refuses to go any further with it which does make me uncomfortable from time to time.
Originally posted by
Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
02/28/2013
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the least partners in the past is better i think
Originally posted by
Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
02/28/2013
He was in a long term relationship before me, for a couple of years. I guess they had break-ups and he played the field. I know I was crazy (my number is pretty high), and I'm glad he doesn't hold that against me. I just wish he had more experience with toys and kinky sex. He's pretty vanilla. It's hard when I'm the one who wants to try new things 99% of the time.
03/03/2013
My honey's only been with one other, and I don't really have a problem with the number... it's more that she was awful. I don't judge him- I love him no matter what- but SHE was a demon in his life, sucking away his true happiness. THAT is what bothers me about his past.
03/04/2013
My fiance has been with many more people than I have. It used to bother me, I wasn`t all that experience before him and I always worried he was comparing me to his multitude of women he`d been with. Or I worried that he'd get that wild streak back and need to go sew some more wild oats...I tamed the ladies man.
But it is what it is, and it's come up a few times (he's in the past shared more details than I cared to know!) and he explained it in a different way for me...he HAD been with many women, but many of them only once, and usually not sober (he was quite young) so they weren't exactly mind blowing experiences or relationships that lead to the kind of intimacy and comfort we have 8 years later...they were alcohol fueled one night stands and we all know how those usually end up (if we can remember them!)
But it is what it is, and it's come up a few times (he's in the past shared more details than I cared to know!) and he explained it in a different way for me...he HAD been with many women, but many of them only once, and usually not sober (he was quite young) so they weren't exactly mind blowing experiences or relationships that lead to the kind of intimacy and comfort we have 8 years later...they were alcohol fueled one night stands and we all know how those usually end up (if we can remember them!)
03/05/2013
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The past is history-nothing to be concerned with.
Originally posted by
Trillian
You are with them regardless but hypothetically or if you had to choose
03/05/2013
don't judge on their past....
03/05/2013