We are going thru a rough patch and i feel like im hanging by a thread! I fear that he doesnt love me the way he used to like im just routine now? We have been together for 4 yrs and married 2 yrs i know thats not a long time but while in this time span we have had some major things happen to us! our daughter was born extremely premature so that put a huge strain on our relationship he had to work and i stayed with her we were living 100 miles apart.. i grew up during that time no doubt about it, i had no choice i was 19 with a 2 pound baby with no one to lean on when i had doubts or fears i felt as if he had left me and didnt care as much as he should have! but that was 2 1/2 yrs ago i still hold a grudge from that very lonely time where i had to go through that alone!! i love him with everything i am he has everything of mine. he was my first everything and i want him to be my last but he has no clue on how to make me happy! he doesnt listen to me i have to repeat everything i say to him atleast 2 times and he doesnt have hearing problems but i do i only have 40% of my hearing left at the age of 21 so on down the road i might have to learn how to communicate through another way and im not sure if he will still be here with me! i feel like we are miles apart when im sitting inches from him! he tells me he loves me but doesnt show it!! i dont know what to do anymore i have tried talking and i have wrote him notes nothing works there is not romance in our relationship yes we have sex but i think mostly just bc i want to feel wanted! i need advice on what to do and fast bc im steadily going down hill with tears and sweat!!! im the only one putting effort into us and im so tired??