Importance in relationships

nova2014 nova2014
Does anyone ever feel like other things are more important to your significant other than yourself? I know some things are understandable (family) but others (games) are definitely not something I can understand. What do you feel is more important to your partner when compared to yourself?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Family
22
Friends
11
Games
9
Hobbies
5
Money
6
Alcohol
3
Pets
7
I'm most important
15
Other
12
Total votes: 90 (50 voters)
Poll is closed
05/19/2013
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Occasionally work gets in the way - but I am the most important person/thing to my wife - and I'm pleased to say the same is true for me. No person or thing is more important than my beautiful wife.
05/20/2013
js250 js250
You forgot one of the more important things---Himself.
05/20/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
You forgot work, that's my other.
05/20/2013
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Family, friends, and money...and I agree with js250, himself.
05/20/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Occasionally work gets in the way - but I am the most important person/thing to my wife - and I'm pleased to say the same is true for me. No person or thing is more important than my beautiful wife.
you both are so blessed - especially given all the years you've been together. I hope I find someone like this too - sometime soon.
05/20/2013
pixiedustVixen pixiedustVixen
if i really had to choose i say everything is more important than me its a pretty unhealthy relationship really.... i love him so much but dont feel the same in return
05/20/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I know the answer, I just don't want to admit it to myself.
05/20/2013
angel42539 angel42539
In my opinion im the most important thing in my hubbys life besides our son of coarse!
05/20/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Has to be family.
05/20/2013
Clock Chime Clock Chime
Work (sometimes) and family.
05/20/2013
married with children married with children
family. thats about it.
05/20/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I win slightly, but I usually don't take up much space
06/01/2013
harvest harvest
the television. I don't get why he likes the television so much. ugh.
06/02/2013
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Sometimes it feels like his family is more important than me.
06/02/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by nova2014
Does anyone ever feel like other things are more important to your significant other than yourself? I know some things are understandable (family) but others (games) are definitely not something I can understand. What do you feel is more important to ... More
Sometimes it feels like a long list...usually when I am being over sensitive.
06/03/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by nova2014
Does anyone ever feel like other things are more important to your significant other than yourself? I know some things are understandable (family) but others (games) are definitely not something I can understand. What do you feel is more important to ... More
family
06/03/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
It's definitely clear that I am most important to him (as he is to me). However, we're pretty much on par with everything else.
06/05/2013
karenm karenm
He's very close to his family, but I'm more important to him most of the tme.
06/06/2013
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
His kids take the cake, and that is 100% acceptable to me as I wouldn't accept anything less. Games are close but I take priority over them, I think.
06/09/2013
twelve13 twelve13
Family, video games, football, friends
06/11/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Family
06/13/2013
Munko Munko
I chose myself and family - but his family (which includes myself, our daughter AND himself) is most important equally I think. Sometimes he gets a little work crazy, or won't put the damn video game controller down - but ultimately, I know we as a unit come first, with our daughter at the top of the list. As for his extended family, etc - he's not all that close to them, so I don't think they rank all that high.
06/14/2013
bratcat bratcat
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
You forgot one of the more important things---Himself.
this is so true!
When it comes to my relationship, my partner can easily get sucked into doing things with friends and tend to ignore me. Luckily i have gotten close to his friends and feel comfortable mingling in a group setting, however you can imagine how annoying and upsetting this was for me before i established these relationships.
06/14/2013
butts butts
Myself and my friends, relationships are fluid. That doesn't mean that I don't deeply care about my partner of course.
06/14/2013
Kodie Kodie
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
You forgot one of the more important things---Himself.
I'm sorry I normally don't post things like this but

LOL


You hit the nail on the head with that one girl!
06/23/2013
sweisb4100 sweisb4100
I'm glad he doesn't see me as the most important thing in his life ALL THE TIME. When his brothers need him I'm glad he will go to them. And he has a really great cat, I love that cat so I get it lol.
08/05/2013
ss143 ss143
After the kids building our business is the most important thing to him right now and that's okay with me.
08/28/2013
peppermintgal peppermintgal
Work sometimes is an issue, but mostly I'm the priority.
08/28/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I think matching sense of humor is most important.
09/06/2013
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