Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
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Is it cheating
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That would depend on what you are talking about and what all grounds you set for your relationship. If you are friendly talking, no big deal. If you are talking as in hooking up and it wasn't established to be an open relationship, yes, it's likely cheating.
Originally posted by
LostinLife
Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
08/11/2012
If its my man doing the talking, it is cheating...if it is me, it is innocent LOL. but in all seriousness, it depends on what you are talking about...I wouldn't really consider it "cheating" but its still not really ok to sneak around and hide stuff since it would harm your relationship if he found out. I talk to people I probably shouldn't, but I know my man has done it in the past, and probably to some extent still does...we all need some of our own little things in life to keep us from going crazy I guess!
08/15/2012
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It depends on how it makes you feel and whether it would break trust with your current partner. For example if my husband or life partner were talking or texting with an -ex it would not be cheating unless they kept it a secret and actively acted deceptively. I know they love me and aren't leaving so the rest is just not a problem. This is not the case with other relationships, however. If there has been inappropriate behavior in the current relationship you might want to stop and be very open about whats going on.
Originally posted by
LostinLife
Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
Honestly, if you feel bad it's probably not a good idea to keep it a secret or be doing it in the first place. If nothing is happening other than friendly conversation why does it need to be kept secret?
08/15/2012
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i agree
Originally posted by
Beck
That would depend on what you are talking about and what all grounds you set for your relationship. If you are friendly talking, no big deal. If you are talking as in hooking up and it wasn't established to be an open relationship, yes, it's
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That would depend on what you are talking about and what all grounds you set for your relationship. If you are friendly talking, no big deal. If you are talking as in hooking up and it wasn't established to be an open relationship, yes, it's likely cheating.
09/05/2012
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I think your husband should be aware. I know my boyfriend would be upset not because he is jealous but there is a reason that person is my ex, and if they were not good enough for you then, why keep in contact?
Originally posted by
LostinLife
Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
09/10/2012
As someone who is sexually non-mono with my partner of 4+yrs, I define cheating as something you wouldn't do* in front of your partner.
In this case it isn't cheating - to my mind - of there's no sexual component but it is lying or at least lying by ommission, which isn't cool either.
*sexually/romantically . Obv not 'the toilet' or similar.
In this case it isn't cheating - to my mind - of there's no sexual component but it is lying or at least lying by ommission, which isn't cool either.
*sexually/romantically . Obv not 'the toilet' or similar.
09/11/2012
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I would say since the person is knowingly not telling their husband, this constitutes as a lie to me. When my partner doesn't tell me something that he knows and I know he SHOULD have told me, it is a lie which is certainly as bad as cheating even if it isn't technically cheating.
Originally posted by
LostinLife
Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
09/12/2012
I'm friends with most of my exes so I'll talk to them weather or not my partners want me to. If I feel like I can't tell them I'm talking to my ex because they would be angry and tell me not to its a sign that I should not be with that person. I think telling your partner who to talk to or not talk to is really controlling and icky. So, yeah, I would tell your partner but I wouldn't stop talking to someone if you want to talk to them.
09/12/2012
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Well I would say most people would get offended especially if you don't tell them about it. If there's nothing to hide then it shouldn't be hidden. But I wouldn't call it cheating I do think that if you were to continue to hide it and your partner finds out I believe a trust issue would evolve from it.
Originally posted by
LostinLife
Is it cheating if you are texting and talking to your ex with out you husband or partner knowing about it? should you feel bad even if it does not lead anywhere?
09/17/2012
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