southernhawtie southernhawtie
I have dated both guy's my age, guy's younger than me and guy's older than me. I prefer older men because they have more experience. They always know exactly what to do and when to do it. But I'm just curious....whats everyone's preference?
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Kiskis2 Kiskis2
i don't like a big age difference, i prefer younger or several years older than me - a person of my generation..
Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
Originally posted by southernhawtie
I have dated both guy's my age, guy's younger than me and guy's older than me. I prefer older men because they have more experience. They always know exactly what to do and when to do it. But I'm just curious....whats everyone's preference?
There is a big difference between my boyfriend and I - 21 years - and there are definitely some kinks to work out. We're from different generations and that can put a rift in our connection. Dating guys in their 20s, no one ever raised an eyebrow when I said, "Hey, I'm going to get my *insert random body part* pierced!" The current boyfriend, 48 years old, acts like I said I want to join the French Foreign Legion. I already have a bunch of piercings, but that's the way he "found" me, so he accepts it - along with the blue hair - but he isn't as nonchalant about body mods as younger guys.
However, he also is completely comfortable with me not working and staying home with my son. He opens doors, carries out the garbage and doesn't expect help with "man's work" like home repair. All awesome.
He and I have different taste in music, movies, etc - it's the generational stuff, the pop culture stuff, where we don't see eye-to-eye, and if that's a huge deal for someone, then they might want to date within their age group.
I don't think I have a preference, though. It all comes down to chemistry and understanding. If you've got that, then fuck the rest of it. It just so happens I found that with a guy old enough to be my dad.
Vally Vally
I have dated men younger, my age and older and I tend to like older men. The man I am currently in a relationship is more than 20 years older than me. They have just always been closer to me in likes and dislikes, personality etc than men my own age.

They are not always more sexually experienced though. One of the most sexually experienced lovers I have had was over ten years younger than me.
onehotmomma onehotmomma
I have only dated guys relatively close to my age, I for some reason always end up being a year or two older, but no huge difference. The only thing I've noticed is the maturity level,and I don't believe that has anything to do with age. My bf became a dad to our first child at 23, and he's been more mature and responsible than some other guys I know who are over 30.
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Married an older man. (Ten years older.)

Experience and maturity do NOT come with age.
Envy Envy
Never dated or been with an older guy, but I seem to prefer guys my age or younger, usually younger.
Shellz31 Shellz31
I definitely prefer the older guys!!!
maskineri maskineri
If we're talking just about sex, then certainly older people are more experienced in general (exceptions do happen, no doubt about that).
If we're talking about something more meaningful like living together, then I would say, 6 or 7 years is a maximum acceptable difference for me. Generation gap can be a bitch. And it ususally is.
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I prefer that the sexual age is around my age, but when it comes to relationships, I prefer the guy to be slightly older by a few years. In my experience, I've dated "dead beat" guys who were going no where in their life... and still aren't. This seemed to not be the case if the guy was a bit older. My preferences might change if I ever become single again, but right now, that is what I prefer. I'd rather go older than younger though. I don't want the immature guys with no ambition. I did enough of that already! Not all younger guys are this way, but I found that the likelihood is greater. It can transfer to the bedroom too.
Harlequin Harlequin
same age only.
Danielle1220 Danielle1220
For me, age doesn't really matter because I've dated guys that were my age and ones that are older and it was pretty much the same for me...when it comes to sex, the older ones I dated didn't really have anything over the younger guys...nothing special at all.
D&&JForever D&&JForever
I am dating a guy who is 9 and a half years older than me. He is amazing, considerate, great in bed, fun to be around, and he is a wonderful father figure for my daughter. In my opinion, older is definitely better!
Valentinka Valentinka
For me it's been always easier with the guys of my age or couple years older. Now I'm in a LT relationship with a guy who is only 1 year older than me, and that's just fine. I enjoy the process of developing and getting more mature together )
Mistress M. Mistress M.
I absolutely love older men! They're generally more mature, and more experienced, which just makes relationships and sex so much better. I've only ever dated someone who was one year younger than me, everyone else was 1-6 years older than I am. My current boyfriend is six years older than me, and sex is fantastic.
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