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Contributor: js250 js250
When you have decided to rebuild your relationship, what is the most important area for you? Your partner? Why?
04/16/2013
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Communication is so important. I find that when we stop communicating well, things go down-hill a little. It's important to talk about things. If there's something they do that bothers you or a way they started acting, it's important to be able to discuss it openly and maturely. Also before those things get out of hand, and one of you ends up blowing up. A lot of times when my attitude and actions are out of line for an extended period of time, I'm not even aware it's happening. I appreciate when my partner points it out so I can apologize and fix it.
04/16/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
yes, communication is a important place to start. I would steer away from the physical part and concentrate on the rest.
04/16/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Communication and airing everything out and being open with each other
04/16/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Open and honest communication is key. As is trying to look at things from outside the relationship. There would also be a focus on reconnecting emotionally rather than sexually. In basic terms I would rebuild the friendship first and then go from there.
04/17/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It depends on what caused the break in the first place. Many couples find couples therapy to be very helpful to keep their discussions on track and find the actual root of the problems.

My Man and I have been together for a very long time. We've had to rebuild several times. We relied on lots of talking, spending quiet time together and sex. This worked for us. We're a very physical couple and sex is part of the way we communicate and connect. The worst times we have gone through have been the times with the least sex. So, when we have to rebuild, we talk and have lots of sex.

It's always worked for us.

Good luck to you.
04/17/2013