Threesomes: yes or no?

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Threesomes: yes or no?

beth317 beth317
if your significant other asks you to have a threesome, would you say yes? or is it better to 'star' in the threesome?
04/27/2013
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eri86 eri86
I would say no.
04/28/2013
married with children married with children
no. threesums are not what either my wife or I consider healthy for a relationship.
04/28/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No 3-somes for us. A 3rd party would be such an intrusion - we adore each other and value our time together - no sharing!
04/29/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I would like to in theory. I'm not sure how it would be in reality.
04/29/2013
Sub-monarch Sub-monarch
I'm on the same page of "well, in theory" mentally its a cool thing in both of our opinions, but we don't really know if it would ever happen in real life since we would have to find the perfect other person and all this other stuff.
04/29/2013
Gary Gary
It's not for us.
04/29/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Depends who's involved. Done it before, but with my current partner it would be different...and I'm certain she will never ask.
04/29/2013
snowminx snowminx
I'm not into it, I'm greedy and want my partner all to myself lol
04/29/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Not for us...at this time, but who knows!
04/29/2013
SassyCat45 SassyCat45
Quote:
Originally posted by beth317
if your significant other asks you to have a threesome, would you say yes? or is it better to 'star' in the threesome?
I would have some bottom line rules laid out before anything like that goes down. I would much rather "star" or be the "third" in a threesome, because I could easily walk away from that. Not having to worry about any feelings of someone else, like my partner, SO or spouse.

I would just have to deal with my own inner feelings of the 3-some.

What is the motive behind a partner asking you for a 3-some? I would ask myself that, is the relationship solid? Or is there some tension between both of you? Rules....put them in place IF you decide to engage in a 3-some. just sayin
04/29/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'd consider it, but probably wouldn't actually go through with it
04/29/2013
karenm karenm
No, I wouldn't want to. I just want my partner.
05/01/2013
VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
Absolutely not. We don't share.
05/01/2013
babyrock babyrock
yes, but not with someone you're in a relationship with. the emotions get messy afterwards. better to be strangers.
05/10/2013
mpfm mpfm
No way
05/10/2013
Munko Munko
No way for me. I am too insecure and I think at this point, 8 years into our relationship it would be a big red flag if one of us felt the need to introduce another person in to the bedroom.
05/11/2013
SMichelle SMichelle
My partner and I had a threesome before. It didn't seem to hurt our relationship at all. I would certainly do it again.
05/11/2013
TJax TJax
I think it sounds like fun. My woman is not opposed to the idea, but we haven't found anyone to join us yet (though we haven't looked much yet).
05/12/2013
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
If my SO ever asked I would want to know why, who, and how he's picturing it going down.
In theory a 3-some could be fun and an exploration but I don't know if I'd ever go through with it. It would have to be with someone who I felt comfortable with and who I knew would not stir up issues. Someone I trust.
However, the chances of him asking are very slim and the chances I would say yes are even slimmer lol
05/12/2013
Eugler Eugler
We were never close to trying. I fantasize sometimes about seing my wife having sex with another man and it turns me on a lot.
I really would love to try.
05/13/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by beth317
if your significant other asks you to have a threesome, would you say yes? or is it better to 'star' in the threesome?
it would be hard to share him
05/13/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
Don't think I will ever have to make that decision, as I am sure my wife would never ask.
05/13/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Given my past, and the fact that I have enjoyed quiet a few threesomes it might come as a shock that my answer is no. My partner is the jealous type, and although he doesn't view me being with another female as cheating I think that if I were to be with one, either in a threesome with him or just alone that his view would change. While I could easily be wrong about the whole thing I am not willing to risk our relationship over it.
05/13/2013
xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
Quote:
Originally posted by beth317
if your significant other asks you to have a threesome, would you say yes? or is it better to 'star' in the threesome?
see thats the situation in my mind is i want to be the STAR of the threesome not him not here ME lol and I would rather it not be someone we know and see regularly, buuuut if we were ever out somewhere and I managed to pick up a women we would sooo bring her home!
05/15/2013
JADE76 JADE76
Quote:
Originally posted by beth317
if your significant other asks you to have a threesome, would you say yes? or is it better to 'star' in the threesome?
i would love to try a threesome
05/24/2013
Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
I would like to be the center of attention in a threesome. I don't like the idea of 2 males + me but my boyfriend and another female sounds like a plan to me!

My boyfriend is too vanilla for that though.
05/24/2013
GingerSpice GingerSpice
did it...unplanned...just watch out for emotions, i personally knew it was just sex, but emotions tend to come out later, best to leave it in your mind, especially if your partner is against it :/
05/24/2013
edeneve edeneve
nope, never been interested.
05/24/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Not in a serious relationship.
05/24/2013
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