Trust and hurt. It's very difficult to put your trust in someone after they've lied to you, and it's even more difficult to heal when someone's emotionally hurt you. My husband tends to be a very angry person in general. He's been though a lot in his life and it's understandable, but it's been difficult to hear the negative things he's said to me, and still feel confident in our relationship. It takes time, it takes a load of forgiveness, and more patience than I can say. People aren't going to change overnight, so you can't expect change to be immediate. We're still figuring it all out. Some days are tougher than others, but we're working on it.