You or your partner: who is more likely to turn down sex on occasion?

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You or your partner: who is more likely to turn down sex on occasion?

salaciousrex salaciousrex
Just wondering in a sexual community like this if it almost never happens with couples or not
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Me
bunny love , kelaaa33wish , Lio , babypinecone , sexyk515 , toxie m , daniel and frances , PiratePrincess , Curves , darthkitt3n , Rossie , MrRainybowbow , barrettbn2 , zizfaye , K101 , CAKES , potstickers , sexxxkitten , brevado
19  (29%)
Partner
married with children , Virgulino , mb , ToyTimeTim , Brandi Rouxxx , slynch , Mell , MaryExy , Kindred , extrafun , ZenaidaMacroura , padmeamidala , tigerkate , Persephone Nightmare , Waterfall , newfoundlust , cobiffle , Dyma , jakjak , Lady Marmelade , salaciousrex , sexygoddess , NuMe , sasweetheart89 , stlouisxxx , Blu , zensgirl10 , EvilHomer , liilii080 , LoooveMonkey , LunaLuthor , Istanbull , PropertyOfPotter , Alyona
34  (52%)
Turn down sex? We've never done that!
Coralbell , jzzrzz , pinkcupcakes , NaturalWoman , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , chidoll , Kilgorescowboy , The Curious Couple , Linga , babyboii1619 , Kdlips , Daniel & Brittany , Kipperanne
13  (20%)
Total votes: 66
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05/01/2011
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married with children married with children
she is "too tired" from work, so she turns it down more then before.
05/01/2011
bunny love bunny love
I sometimes turn down sex because I'm tired or sick. We'll start to cuddle instead and then usually wind up having sex sooner or later. heh.

He has only turned down sex once. We had been having sex nonstop for a couple days, and his penis was starting to feel sore.
05/01/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
He gets it whenever he wants it. But I on the other hand, lol... if he's too tired he won't want to do it or if he's in a bad mood. Me, shit... I'm ALWAYS ready, lol.
05/01/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
It hasn't happened yet, but we've only been together for 3 months.
05/01/2011
Howells Howells
I think my partner. Girls are more likely to turn down dunno why.
05/01/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by Howells
I think my partner. Girls are more likely to turn down dunno why.
Not true in my case. I'm the girl and I never turn my guy down. He, on the other hand, is too tired sometimes to do anything.
05/01/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
My partner, definitely. I almost never turn down sex, unless I'm SUPER depressed or sick or something. He turns it down...a lot. I've gotten to the point that I don't even try anymore. If we have sex, it's because he initiated it. We've been together for over a year, and every time (except for once, maybe) I have tried to initiate it, I've been rejected. It's actually become quite a problem. He says I always try at the wrong time, i.e. when he's tired, about to go to work, etc. But those haven't been the only times I've tried, and I still am turned down. Sigh.
05/01/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
i have
05/01/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by salaciousrex
Just wondering in a sexual community like this if it almost never happens with couples or not
my Master tends to turn down sex when he's tired and because he's a bit older now so less stamina. I hardly ever turn down sex and he wouldn't allow it anyways even if I tried to give him excuses to not have sex.
05/01/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I used to always be frisky and he'd be tired/exhausted from work... So he was the one turning it down. He also turns me down when I'm on my period.

I suspect that I will be saying no more now that I have a job
05/01/2011
Persephone Nightmare Persephone Nightmare
I have never turned down sex and unless it's for medical reasons, I don't plan to either. Literally, I am *always* ready and wanting it, lol

Synthetik does turn down sex sometimes because of his medicine. He is Bipolar and the medicine he is currently on can decrease his libido and make him "not in the mood" for it at times. Luckily, he's going to go and have his medicines switched soon, not only because of the decreased libido, but also because alot of times he'll have insomnia and other things that aren't good to have.
05/01/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Quote:
Originally posted by padmeamidala
my Master tends to turn down sex when he's tired and because he's a bit older now so less stamina. I hardly ever turn down sex and he wouldn't allow it anyways even if I tried to give him excuses to not have sex.
This is very true of us as well.
05/01/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I don't currently have a partner but I know that I never turn down sex. In the past I have always been the one to want sex more.
05/01/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Neither of us turns down sex, but a lot of times one of us has to turn down a date because of lack of time. I've been turning down a lot of dates recently, because the deadline for my thesis was approaching.
05/02/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
My partner was always the one doing it
05/02/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
My partner is the one that turns down sex. I have when I was sick or in too much pain, but that's been it. I always want it all the time and I'm always ready for it He turns it down if he's too tired or angry if we've been arguing, I still don't know why he won't give into angry sex!
05/02/2011
Kilgorescowboy Kilgorescowboy
Quote:
Originally posted by salaciousrex
Just wondering in a sexual community like this if it almost never happens with couples or not
i dont think either of us would turn down sex lol
05/02/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by salaciousrex
Just wondering in a sexual community like this if it almost never happens with couples or not
I'm more moody than he is. ;-)
05/02/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I'll turn it down if I'm super stressed.
05/02/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I've been getting sick a lot lately, so I have been turning it down.
05/02/2011
Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Yeah...
05/03/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't think my fiancee or I have ever turned down sex!
05/03/2011
Linga Linga
Unless one of us is ill and not just a headache, we never turn each other down. Him wanting and needing me is all I need to be instantly wet and ready and vice versa.
05/03/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
Rarely happens anymore but every now and then if im not up for it.
05/04/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
Id say me
05/04/2011
zizfaye zizfaye
I get migraines a lot, which doesn't make for fun sex.
05/04/2011
K101 K101
Usually neither of us turn it down, but occasionally (like today) when it;s that time of the month I have a lot of pain from endometriosis problems so I really can't without having too much pain so I just stay away from sex on days like this.

But, he knows about it & he knows the days that I have pain & he never asks to have sex or tries. It's sweet. He knows I'd keep quiet and do it anywways unless the pain got to be unbearable. I'm glad he's so understanding about it. It's hard to find a man who cares about your pain when it comes to sex.
05/09/2011
babyboii1619 babyboii1619
UNLESS SOMETHINGS UP NEVER HAVE WE TURNED ONE ANOTHER DOWN...
05/09/2011
NuMe NuMe
This has actually changed back and forth over the years, but over the past couple of years, hubby is the one more likely to turn it down.
05/09/2011
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