I love the feeling while I'm being sucked on the neck, but hate the markings of it. Not a fan of covering my neck either, it's so stifling. I try not to get them anymore because it does seem a bit trashy looking. I really don't care if someone else has them, it was a good time for them! Giving someone a hickey for reasons of ownership status is very immature and high school stupid. Really wish I could be sucked on without the markings tho' it feels soooo good!