Your Stance On Having A Hickey

wetone123 wetone123
I love the feeling while I'm being sucked on the neck, but hate the markings of it. Not a fan of covering my neck either, it's so stifling. I try not to get them anymore because it does seem a bit trashy looking. I really don't care if someone else has them, it was a good time for them! Giving someone a hickey for reasons of ownership status is very immature and high school stupid. Really wish I could be sucked on without the markings tho' it feels soooo good!
SexToys-R-Us SexToys-R-Us
I think they are acceptable like if you leave them in aread that normally anyone else wouldnt see is fun but out in the open like on the neck and stuff is a big no no.
Nora29714 Nora29714
I think that it is trashy as hell
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I think they are nasty.
tami tami
I like them because I like to get my neck bit and sucked on an things
Mamastoys Mamastoys
Originally posted by Kitka
Yep, I think so too. I don't like getting or making them either.
I agree too. Had one many years ago and thank goodness it was turtleneck season!!
AliMc AliMc
I had to go school for an exam with about 30 of them covering my neck, it was so embarrassing as one of the other girls shouted to ask me about it while the room was silent and everyone was waiting for the test to begin... all eyes were on me!
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Its tacky lol
novanilla novanilla
Neither my partner or I care and we think it's fun to give them to each other sometimes just for the hell of it. We never do that before the other one has an interview or something though.
Feisty Feisty
I don't think it is a big deal. We give hickeys to each other but we try to do it in spots that are easily covered up.
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
If they're trashy anyway, then I don't like them. But if they're in a good relationship with someone, I tease them and think it's cute.

And PropertyOfPotter, they could accidentally do it to you because you love it so much when they suck on your neck you keep telling them not to stop and to do it harder. XD But then after you're done, then you look in the mirror and are like, "Snap, what's that? D:" I can't help it. e_e It feels so freaking good.

But I found out that if you put some form of lubricant on your neck and rub the hickey hard with a coin to force the blood back in, you can make them go away completely. It does hurt a little, though. A small price to pay for an incredible time!
tortilla tortilla
doesn't look good to me
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I would just smile at strangers but if I know the person I would poke at it first then laugh with the hickey holder
Deeder Deeder
They just look dumb to me.
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I am not a fan of them least not visible ones. I have had co-workers at past jobs come to work with them and that to me is not professional. Out in public in general, I guess to each their own. To me though, work is not a place for them and to be more careful
Artishok Artishok
I laugh, knowing it was probably an accident and the person is so embarassed
Incendiaire Incendiaire
A guy gave me a hickey once, then made me wear a scarf to cover it up when we went out, haha.
Boyfriend Boyfriend
trashy to me
squire squire
I try to avoid em. In my profession it would impact how people received the services I provide.
charleswifey charleswifey
not a fan but they have happened by accident in the heat of the moment but I don't think they are nasty most of the time they are never where anyone but hubby can see!
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't think they're attractive but I like getting them d=
Ivanna Ivanna
I don't like them
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I don't mind them. I get them every now and then and I'll use my hair to hide them, so if I see someone else with it I'll just be like: Well, they had fun XD. I never call anyone out on it because it can be embarrassing if they're seen, especially if you're trying to cover them up.
RonLee RonLee
Isn't that really just a Middle School or at most High School thing?
The Majikat The Majikat
Sometimes they can be very trashy.
PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
Is it slutty to have a hickey? Is it a sign of ownership? Something else entirely?
I think they're somewhat juvenile, but don't have a hard rule against them. I probably care more about the mark on my neck than 'being marked'.
anonkitty anonkitty
Odd. I've never perceived them as trashy. They mostly come off accidental to me. For myself, I bruise pretty easily so I get them the moment you do more than breathe on my skin. Good thing I like them. =] As long as I can hide them anyway.
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Originally posted by closed account
in my experience its someone trying to show ownership. and in a jealous controlling way, not a D/S way

a light hickey happens unintentionally on occasion, but the bad ones are just immature. if its something someone got off on, i'd be ok ...
hahahaha, i agree, lots better things to do with your mouth!

Not to mention, good oral is a lot better way to gain ownership, not prove it outta jealousy! haha
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I love getting and leaving hickeys-but not really to show off. They're more so that my boyfriend and I can look at them and remember the great sex we had, or so that when he's alone he can remember he's mine a little extra. We don't show them to anyone or make a big deal out of it. It's more of a personal thing.
burtnuh burtnuh
One hickey that is small is one thing, I can understand it may have been an accident or something playful, but I think it's gross to see someones entire neck covered in them.
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