There are a few things that could scare me right out of the door, but I would hope that would be true for most people. Involving a dog, child, or anything unconscious or dead would surely make me leave. I am not going to involve myself with scat play, nor will I be degraded. So, if those are his fantasies then we have nothing in common.
Have you ever been so freaked out by a partner's fantasy that you felt differently about them after hearing it?
02/20/2012
He had one that was a bit to accept. But after a few days and some research, I was okay again.
02/21/2012
nop
02/21/2012
Would never judge someone for a fantasy regardless of what it was. The thoughts that turn us on and the thoughts that turn us on. Some fantasies never should be acted on, but there's nothing wrong with having them in your mind.
02/26/2012
Nope, but my girlfriend is pretty vanilla.
02/26/2012
No, they'd have to be into something severely harmful/illegal for it to freak me out. If someone could only get off to fantasies about raping kids or killing people, then I'd have a problem, but a lot of fantasies that some folks find "weird" really don't faze me at all.
08/03/2012
He's not too out there, at least with the ones he has shared so far.
08/03/2012
I have not been asked to do anything to weird yet.
Blood play was a little .......different...... but I got over it.
Blood play was a little .......different...... but I got over it.
08/03/2012
it hasn't happened to me and I don't think it'd be a problem.
08/03/2012
This hasn't happened to me and I'd like to think it won't, or that I'll handle it well.
08/03/2012
I thought my rape fantasy would scare my hubby but it didn't surprisingly. We still have not acted it out right yet though.
12/10/2012
If my partner had a rape fantasy I would leave immediately, no discussion needed, because I am a survivor and considering what it has done to my life I would be very very VERY uncomfortable even talking to them anymore after learning that. Not every survivor has this issue thankfully but it is absolutely a deal breaker for me, whether he wanted to act it out or not, because I do not want to experience that again or be with someone who would want me to relive that in any way shape or form. It is just too much for me now.
12/11/2012
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that's crazy!
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
I think what really punctured my dysfunctional marriage was finding my ex-husband's self-written mother-son porn about two years into it. It finally made sense of why he wanted me pregnant - he wanted to fantasize about that. Where the low-libido
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I think what really punctured my dysfunctional marriage was finding my ex-husband's self-written mother-son porn about two years into it. It finally made sense of why he wanted me pregnant - he wanted to fantasize about that. Where the low-libido came in and his blaming me for scaring it out of him, I'm not entirely sure. Maybe it's part of having a mother fixation. But after that I was pretty much sexually dead with him, which was fine because we weren't having any.
Clueless me - I took him into marriage counseling and drove the therapist into having to color her rapidly greying hair, start drinking after twenty years of sobriety, and eventually her throwing us out of her office. I felt really bad about that, but I had no clue what was really going on. He refused to believe anything was wrong with him - after all it was 'my fault for getting worked up about a genital sneeze'. And I believed him.
I have a sudden desire to throttle him now. I suppose for his sake he's lucky he's back in Arkansas. Never again. less
Clueless me - I took him into marriage counseling and drove the therapist into having to color her rapidly greying hair, start drinking after twenty years of sobriety, and eventually her throwing us out of her office. I felt really bad about that, but I had no clue what was really going on. He refused to believe anything was wrong with him - after all it was 'my fault for getting worked up about a genital sneeze'. And I believed him.
I have a sudden desire to throttle him now. I suppose for his sake he's lucky he's back in Arkansas. Never again. less
12/11/2012
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I've always been afraid they will be afraid of MY kinks.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
Fantasy Freak Out
12/11/2012
I try to never judge someone for a fantasy. As long as it is not harming someone else, I do not care what you are into.
12/19/2012
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i try to stay open minded. i'll try anything once
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
Fantasy Freak Out
12/21/2012