My own answer... I only like it if there is absolutely no chance of getting caught. My ex and I were caught once, and that has scared me out of public sex.
I'm not so much worried about the getting caught, I just don't want to do it when I'm in danger of mosquito-attacks. But if I can avoid bug bites, I'm all for outdoor sex!
Did it a couple times in a prior ltr and loved it! We did it on a deck of our house in the mountains and also behind a rock on a ski slope. My SO and I have discussed this a little and we are interested in trying together. We will have a possible opportunity on about 5 days when I pick her up from an out of state project that has kept us apart for three weeks.
Sex outside. How do you feel about it? Now that the warm weather is here, it's got me thinking...
It can be uncomfortable. It can be stressful. There is SO much that could go wrong. However, it is so freeing to just be outside and in the wide open. I just wish I didn't worry the whole time. lol
Provided I don't get eaten by mosquitoes - which is what happened on my one attempt previous - I'm okay with the idea, but it isn't a particular turn-on.
My first sexual experience was a blowjob on a picnic table in a state park...damn that brings back some memories! I have always enjoyed it and always has happy memories.
I'd try it, maybe in the woods! Outside is not equal to public! I'd also have it in the garden because we have a lot of trees and bushes no1 can see through from the street but one of the neighbours have their kithcen window pointing at us (isn't that illegal?) and some others too where we don't have enough foliage.
More my wife's thing than mine, but it's fun when we can find a private place to play that's outside. Did it more when we were young, including a state park that she still refers to on a nice day. A great memory!
Out in the woods, a crowded area, and for some reason particularly in an alleyway-- these are places I'd like to try. I admit the idea of having sex outside these four walls is frightening, but I like to be scared. The idea of having to keep quiet coupled with the 'caught-at-any-moment' flavor of danger is intensely sexy.
This doesn't necessarily have to do with having sex outside, but the idea of just ripping pants down and being taken in some dark, semi-secluded corner is hot.
I love having sex in the woods. Of course I just love being in the woods in general. I'd love to have sex in a beautiful garden, but so far I haven't been able to find one private enough. I don't want to risk being seen. I just like being in beautiful natural settings.