Light BDSM is amzing. We have been married for 17 years and a mid life crisis hit, we turned to each other instead of away. Bondage and teasing has become a staple in our intamate time. SportSheets Sex & Mischief line has really added a bunch of spice to our marriage.
Swinging??? Never for me. I love my husband and seeing him with another person .. I can't even fathom. Try porn, and fantisies. Maybe that can take the place of swining. Honestly, I can't see anything good coming from sharing after 10 years.