My husband is enjoying the Flip Hole Black. It is his first masturbator. It isn't like anything he expected; it's better. There are lots of different textures leading to loads of sensation. He does say it is a bit tight, but still feels good. I love to use this on him.
I have the fleshlight. Its great the first time, but if I try to take it for a second go round then it hurts and wears away the skin of the head of the penis. That really sucks. I've done that twice, and almost threw it away the second time. But its great to use for the first masturbation session, just don't use it back to back.
Whatever you get, make sure it's pre-opened for him. The best ones have an opening big enough for your pinky without stretching it. Anything smaller is hard to penetrate, will not last and is guarenteed to tear.
I just chucked a Briana Banks Pussy & Ass by Doc Johnson. What a piece of junk. The opening was too small for a pencil. I'm only 5 inches and I could not get my dick into it. I had to cut it with a knife(as serial killer as that sight must have been).
UR3, cyberskin or pleasureskin is a must! Silicon is junk.