Have you ever gone (or considered going) to a swinger's bar as a single person?

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Have you ever gone (or considered going) to a swinger's bar as a single person?

scissormetimbers scissormetimbers
There are somethings being single frees you up to try, and I'm wondered if anyone, particularly females, had done this.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, and I don't want to
31  (41%)
No, but I'd try it
35  (46%)
Yes, and it was horrendous
3  (4%)
Yes, and it was FANTASTIC
2  (3%)
Do they have swingsets or tireswings in these kinda clubs?
5  (7%)
Total votes: 76
Poll is closed
08/05/2010
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Sorry couldn't resist the last choice. Most swing clubs willing accept unattached females but will stop unattached males at the door...seems the average Mr. Swinging doesn't like a "stray" man possibly staring at his Johnson or some other stupid reason. It sucks for guys like my husband who would love to join a reputable, reasonably safe swing club but I prefer not to. So I either have to go along or swear, avow and affirm that he is my husband and I know he's there. There are more "rules" and "regulations" in swinging than are in most extreme sports!
08/06/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
No but I've been propositioned a few times by couples i didn't even know. never accepted. never will. It is flattering though.
08/06/2010
joja joja
I am interested in swinging, though honestly it seems like most swingers are at least 10-20 years older than I, so I'm not sure I would find anyone I was really attracted to. May have to save this fantasy for later.
08/06/2010
buzzvibe buzzvibe
If I was single, I might go. It's not something I honestly think I'd be into, but I'd probably go once out of curiosity.
08/06/2010
Envy Envy
Nah, not my thing. I have to have emotional attachment, a bond that has been forged over time. I can't just go pick up random people or have random people pick me up.
08/06/2010
Timaree Timaree
at one point in my life maybe, but i think the lustrous appeal of this kind of scene is gone for me.
08/29/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
The swing club where I live is crawling with creeps. It's so gross, to be honest, and the owner doesn't keep it up like he should. I have to sanitize myself when I leave to go home at the end of the night. Needless to say, I haven't been in well over a year.
08/29/2010
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
As a voyeur I would love to go to a swing club, I do not think I would be able to participate though.
09/17/2010
Rhazya Rhazya
I had to vote for the last choice too, it made me laugh.

I'd be too afraid honestly. Afraid that I would get raped, or get a disease, and not receive any pleasure.

I'd only go if I had very close friends that I trusted with my safety.
10/17/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
No. I don't think I'd want to go without a partner.
11/28/2010
lemony lemony
It depends upon my situation, but I'll keep an open mind.
12/17/2010
closed account closed account
many clubs do not permit single males. i would more likely go to an on premise then off premise if going alone. i never have. but it just seems safer.
12/24/2010
Ellie B Ellie B
Actually, I wouldn't say it was awful, just uncomfortable. I was the only single woman there and men were all over me. I felt that I had to work too hard to say no and that I was 'on display'. I am glad I tried it thought.
01/04/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd give it a go if I had the chance!
01/05/2011
idunshire idunshire
I would, except I'm not the kind of person that does many things alone. I'm terribly shy and talking to strange people is horribly uncomfortable for me.
03/06/2011
link82 link82
No, that's not really my thing.
04/16/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by scissormetimbers
There are somethings being single frees you up to try, and I'm wondered if anyone, particularly females, had done this.
prob not. not bc it wouldn't be fun but stds among swingers is higher than prostitutes. i don't want to get sick
04/17/2011
deletedacct deletedacct
I probably would decline but i might go at least once to be a voyeur, then go home & play with myself to visual memories.
06/22/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We had friends who were swingers, but it would definitely be weird going there with friends or making friends. The whole situation is just too different for me.
12/11/2011
Sublime Sublime
If I ever had a girlfriend that was into it I'd consider it.
12/11/2011
inmytoybox inmytoybox
You only live once. I would try it.
12/14/2011
Kitka Kitka
I prefer not to do anything like that without my husband, otherwise I'd consider going.
12/14/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
No, I'm really not interested in that.
12/14/2011
PussyPurr PussyPurr
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
prob not. not bc it wouldn't be fun but stds among swingers is higher than prostitutes. i don't want to get sick
Really? I'd love to see where you got that research statistic from. Seriously, is that true?
01/09/2012
PussyPurr PussyPurr
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyPurr
Really? I'd love to see where you got that research statistic from. Seriously, is that true?
Okay, I looked it up...I'm shocked that women swinger's rates of infection were so much higher than prostitutes'. But there are a couple of other reasons they may be correlated. The age group that had the highest rate were in their mid-40's and up, which is the group that currently has one of the fastest rates of HIV and STI infection anyway. Also, the study was done in the Netherlands, where prostitution is highly regulated. I'd be willing to bet they'd find the same thing here in Nevada, if they compared the swinger population to those of prostitutes. The workers in our state have weekly exams and have had a virtually zero STI transmission rate for decades. They are absolute pros at safer sex methods, so it's not really a fair comparison (though you would think that swingers would also be motivated to consistently practice safer sex methods as well).

Thanks for posting this, I'm passing on to my sexologist friend!
01/09/2012
closed account closed account
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyPurr
Okay, I looked it up...I'm shocked that women swinger's rates of infection were so much higher than prostitutes'. But there are a couple of other reasons they may be correlated. The age group that had the highest rate were in their ...
I'm totally shocked. Swingers of all people are usually so pro safer-sex. I bet it has to do with oral sex. but then still...it just makes no sense to me.
09/18/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
not interested
09/18/2012
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Nope, no real desire either
09/19/2012
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by scissormetimbers
There are somethings being single frees you up to try, and I'm wondered if anyone, particularly females, had done this.
i have not
12/26/2012
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