How do I make myself appear available?

Shortietomboy235 Shortietomboy235
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I've been single for two weeks, almost three, and I want to get back out into the scene. But I don't want to appear like I'm desperate and I'm not looking to jump back into a new relationship but I want to have some fun and play the field and enjoy my younger years. Any ideas on how to get back into the field and not look desperate?
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El-Jaro El-Jaro
How long was your last relationship? How much do you have to "catch up" on?
MrWill MrWill
What's the longest you've been single between relationships? Are you a serial monogamist?

If you've never been single for longer than a few weeks, seriously.... Try just being single for a while. Learn what you want, instead of taking the first offer.
js250 js250
Be friendly--let them know up front you are not looking at a relationship but want to date and enjoy getting to know people for awhile. Have fun, do activities you like and do not flirt obsessively.
Shortietomboy235 Shortietomboy235
Originally posted by El-Jaro
How long was your last relationship? How much do you have to "catch up" on?
It was almost a year and a half.
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Could be a good time to get refamiliar with yourself. I know it reads kinda hokey and silly, but it's true. You may find that things that used to both you a year and a half ago don't really matter.

There's nothing wrong with waiting a bit. Just surround yourself with some friends and have fun!
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