ONE night stands

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ONE night stands

luvmenot84 luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
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Yes
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No
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IDK
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38  (26%)
Total votes: 146
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01/05/2011
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Waterfall Waterfall
They are "ok", not anything that I enjoy a lot, but not something I am totally against.
01/05/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
One night stands can be very hot. With the right person, of course.
01/05/2011
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
can't say that it's my thing, but sure if you want to go for it
01/06/2011
Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
Never had a one night stand. I'm not totally opposed to the idea, but I guess I like the thought of sleeping with someone I've been dating better.
01/06/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
It's not my thing, but I can see how it would be great for others.
01/06/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't see any problem with them, as long as people are safe. It's not something I'd do, though.
01/06/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
It would definitely depend on the individuals and their preferences.
01/06/2011
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
I think I'd rather have had the choice to vote "other." There are so many issues at play here, I wouldn't presume to declare them "ok" or "not ok" for anybody else (except my daughter, heh).

As long as you behave honestly, responsibly and safe, you should do what it pleases you to do.
01/06/2011
Envy Envy
I think I'm not understanding the question fully. Do you mean okay as in morally? As in okay overall to do? Or are you asking if we are okay with them? Or are we okay with doing them?

I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my friend who does them, but he's pretty desperate and lonely. But it's his choice and his life. I personally would not do them at all, I need to have an emotional connection. For me to sink to that level I think i would really have to dislike myself as I pride myself in having set standards.

Not for everyone, but for those it works for, more power to you I guess, so long as everyone plays it safe.
01/06/2011
liilii080 liilii080
They're not for me but I wouldn't tell someone else (who was sober and of sound mind) not to. If you're of age, responsible, and in a mental state where you can make decisions for yourself and that is what you want to do, who am I to make a judgement? Different strokes for different folks.
01/06/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
I think I'm not understanding the question fully. Do you mean okay as in morally? As in okay overall to do? Or are you asking if we are okay with them? Or are we okay with doing them?

I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my ...
Agreed completely.
01/06/2011
ToyGeek ToyGeek
As long as both parties know it's a one night stand, everyone practices safe sex, and there isn't some third party being injured by the festivities, then it's harmless enough. If someone's going to be hurt or rejected because they were misled, or cheated on, then it's not morally okay.
01/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Yes- if protection is used.
01/10/2011
After the Morning After After the Morning After
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
I love love love one night stand. Probably because I am in college, and I am lucky enough to see sex as something that can be meaningful, but it can also be a blast no matter who you are doing it with.

I write about all of my one night stands on my blog:

link
01/11/2011
PassionQT PassionQT
So long as you both are on the same page, why not.
01/11/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Some people will never admit it but, between consenting adults, it is OK to just have sex. There are some common sense rules to follow and playing safe is always mandatory.
01/11/2011
mrsmccormick627 mrsmccormick627
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
Got to get your rocks off somehow and if you can keep the ties to none then why not?
01/13/2011
Chevylady37 Chevylady37
as long as you don't get attached or don't end up pregnant.
01/13/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
I have been there, done that. There is nothing wrong with it so long as protection is used.
01/14/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
I don't like one night stands, so personally, no. However, it's each person's opinion and desision.
01/15/2011
deletedacct deletedacct
As long as its done with protection & *both* consenting adults are aware that its a 'one night stand.'
01/15/2011
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I don't think there is a problem with one night stands as long as it does not become a regular thing. Making a habit of sleeping with strangers on a regular basis is VERY risky behavior WITH or WITHOUT the use of condoms. Sex with strangers, or anybody who you do not know with 100% certainty is disease free is risky behavior, however if you have a lot of one night stands you are taking that risk OVER and OVER again. Lets face it condoms break, they fall off on occasion, and they don't cover everything, and like I pointed out in another thread if you are swapping partners only the men are protected, in the case of gay/bisexual men, nobody is. It is certainly safer to use protection but to believe that if you wrap up absolutely nothing will go wrong is just stupidity.

Morally, if both people are consenting and aware of the circumstances then no.
Again, I don't think that making a habit of one night stands is good, morals aside I just don't think it is healthy to limit yourself to hit and run relationships.
01/15/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
Your question is ambiguous.

Do you mean, is it wrong to have a one night stand? No.

Do you mean, is it worth it to have a one night stand? No again. Empty sex is just not fulfilling enough to be worth the effort in my opinion.
01/15/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Before I became somewhat of a misanthrope, I used to have them. Now I'm often disgusted by a lot of people, so it does not happen too often. But that's just my preference.
Ethically there is nothing wrong with it, if nobody hurts anybody. ))
01/16/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Well, I don't have any problem with other people having one night stands, but they just are not for me.
01/25/2011
Choolz Choolz
I don't see what's wrong with them. I personally never liked the idea although I did have one. It wasn't supposed to be, I was trying to get to know him, we hooked up one night and well, he didn't impress me so I decided to leave it at that and never called him again.
01/25/2011
Airekah Airekah
They are okay as long as you are not in a committed relationship, and you are sure to use adequate protection.
01/25/2011
zeebot zeebot
Sure, once in a while.
01/25/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
depends on the person. some ppl cant handle them
01/29/2011
Total posts: 97
Unique posters: 97