How do you feel when another person does not find an item you really liked as satisfying--after you either recommended it to them or based on your review?

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How do you feel when another person does not find an item you really liked as satisfying--after you either recommended it to them or based on your review?

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Contributor: js250 js250
I tend to feel pretty bad, as if I misled them--even though I loved the item. It makes me feel like I should be more objective, but that is pretty hard to do after loving something so much.

I find it much easier to tell people I did not like an item for x reasons and then when it works for them--it doesn't bother me. I am actually glad it worked for them. Pretty silly--but true!
09/15/2012
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Contributor: Gracie Gracie
No, dont feel silly, I feel the exact same way! I start to doubt my judgment for a minute, but then I think about enjoying the toy and it gets a little easier to let go of it. We are all just so different!
09/15/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Doesn't bother me, people's opinions differ.
09/15/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
We all have such different tastes and bodies! It's not different than me loving the design of something and someone hating it. I haven't had this experience with this site, but I have with other things. I can't speak for everyone but reviews I have read seem like the reviewers honest opinion. I would never be mad at someone for writing an honest review about a product they love. Even if I got it based on their review and hated it, I understand we're all different.
09/15/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Hey, we write reviews and we know what we like, just because someone doesn't like something we do that is not our fault! I have reviewers that I follow and we have the same opinion on alot of things but not all of them and I don't hold any responsible but myself.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Doesn't bother me at all. I really liked Sliquid and recommended it to my Mom, but it turned out she didn't like it. Not a big deal.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I will feel a little guilty for recommending the toys to them, but I'll get over it after a while, since everyone does have their own needs and different anatomies.
09/15/2012
Contributor: butts butts
It's a bit sad, but, everyones body is different, it's really hard to tell what is going to work well for someone else.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I feel bad that they wasted their points/money. But, I give honest reviews the best I can but we are all different.
09/16/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After reading all the rave review for the Uma - I bought one and we are not at all impressed. It's not the fault of those other reviewers. I give the credit for being honest. I'm sure it has happened for people buying products based on my reviews - but I don't feel bad - I gave an honest appraisal.
09/16/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
As long as you're completely honest in your reviews, you shouldn't feel bad. Like others have said, you may love a product and another person hates it (and vice versa).
09/16/2012
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I would feel bad but we all have different tastes. It took me a while to find exactly what I like and I know that just because I like something, doesn't mean everyone will.
09/16/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I always feel bad, especially if they bought it because I recommended it. It's kind of like if you recommend a restaurant and they don't like it, I always feel guilty.
09/16/2012
Contributor: Strider Strider
I feel bad when that happens. Like I failed them.
03/11/2013