My husband and I are not new to anal sex but are new to anal toys. I added some beads to a recent Eden order because I figured, why the heck not?! Don't knock it 'til you try it, right? But to be honest, I have NO IDEA how to use them (and of course there are no instructions, ha). Do you put them in and leave them during sex or is the turn-on from pulling them out? I realize there may be more than one "right" way, just looking for ideas. Thanks!