What made you try anal for the first time?

Callisto Callisto
When I was younger and a virgin I was unusually tight, you know its true when the lady doing your pelvic exam curses under her breath. Anyway I wanted something "in me" and I played around with a sharpie in my bum, didn't really enjoy the sensation at first but it was new and slightly enjoyable. This was close to 7 years ago and I was wondering.. is there more to it?
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Jul!a Jul!a
I kept hearing about how pleasurable it could be and all that. It wasn't until my husband that I had a partner that I trusted to stop if I became uncomfortable while playing with him, and it wasn't until I started hanging out here that I got comfortable with trying out plugs and the like myself.
tooshy tooshy
My first time was anal rape. It hurt like you wouldn't believe. But my ex husband really liked it, so I was willing to give it a go. My hubby now is the one I trust to do this with. He is a gentle man and will honor me if I ask him to stop or if there is any pain or if I'm not ready for it.
Coralbell Coralbell
The first time I ever played around down there was soon after I hit puberty (around 11), but I think that was mainly just exploring my body rather than really being sexual. I became interested in trying anal toys and anal sex after joining EF and reading some of the reviews and posts here.
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Originally posted by Callisto
When I was younger and a virgin I was unusually tight, you know its true when the lady doing your pelvic exam curses under her breath. Anyway I wanted something "in me" and I played around with a sharpie in my bum, didn't really enjoy ...
my Master was interested in anal so I tried it for the first time with him. I was an anal virgin up until then.
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Basically i read a story that made me want to try it and went from their I have a blog post all about the journey on my blog: link
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
My first serious relationship. My ex was into it, and I was all about seeing what it was all about. He's still the only person I've ever had full anal sex with after 6 years. I'm hoping to change that in the very near future (next few weeks).
nsnancy nsnancy
I always felt like I needed back door stimulation - like something was missing or being neglected - but I had to get over the taboo (or more aptly, embrace it!). At MY urging, my husband and I tried it, but with unsuccessful results. (We didn't know what the hell we were doing - that was before Internet!) Many years went by and still I knew I wanted anal sex. So I started playing with objects. Eventually I bought a butt plug...and found euphoria. I also found a great how-to video online by Tristan Taoramino - "The Expert Guide to Anal Sex" (download the whole thing, not just a clip - the whole series is both educational and arousing). I used the video, along with the surprise introduction to my butt plug , to re-engage my husband and satisfy my long-held fantasy. I'm so incredibly glad I did!
acessorie acessorie
It started with the slip of a finger and evolved from there!
PandJ PandJ
have always been turned on by watching anal, and decided to try out with a dildo. then found out that my fingers did just as well!
Antipova Antipova
I'd been clitorally masturbating since early middle school, but by the end of middle school/beginning of high school, I wanted/craved something inside me. I wanted to save my hymen for a boy* so it wasn't long before I figured out the 'other hole' worked pretty darn well.

*When I got around to that, turns out I didn't really have much of a hymen anyway. Oh well, I'm still glad I woke up to anal as early as I did.
Fantasy Treasures Fantasy Treasures
I've heard a lot of "third time is the charm", but for me personally, it was completely untrue. I tried it many times (usually having been pressured to do so), and for a long time, I hated it until I got with my current partner.

Turns out I just needed someone who would treat my bum right to make it enjoyable, and now I almost crave it sometimes.
Liz2 Liz2
My first anal experience was extremely painful, alcohol was involved and the only lube was saliva, and brute force. I swore off anal for quite awhile but discovered the joy of anal by myself with plugs and dils.
I now totally enjoy anal, getting it as well as giving it with a strap-on. I usually masturbate with a butt plug in place, for me it is just so....pleasurable.
A partner that is sensitive to your body is certainly a plus.
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
My ex boyfriend really wanted to try it, so after a lot of warm up, and plenty of lube, we went for it. It was ok, but I never really got off from it. Now I am experimenting with some anal stimulation while masturbating, and it's pretty fun! I'm going to get my first butt plug soon.
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I was curious about it.
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