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...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
i disagree about most people having sex in the dark.
personally, i can't have sex in the dark, it will trigger me. even if it didn't i think i'd definitely prefer at least some lighting - i want to see what's going on, i'm a visual learner, and visually turned on (or off, for that matter).
i prefer abstract-looking dildos and will never fuck a real-looking one due to my personal aversion to real penises. also, i think the detached penis thing is kinda creepy.
the abstract ones can be so pretty they're downright artful, and i have a strong preference to surround myself only with things that are visually pleasing, or artistic.