Whats the difference...

Maxx Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
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I like the color
- Kira - , loveshocks , BobbiJay , hiroshiro , arduous , HannahPanda , Kitt Katt , Positwist , Sir , XYCopperheadSly , padmeamidala , Kitka , sweetpea12 , sweet&lush , Tess , potstickers , RomanticGoth , dhig , irishlove , aliceinthehole , mistre$$ , tA , godweensatan , calliope , Mwar , Pleasure Piratess , Hibangel , Entropy , slynch
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I like the real looking one
Slickdick , angel142stx , Kitt Katt , Sir , XYCopperheadSly , potstickers , Pleasure Piratess , Hibangel , Entropy , slynch
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I dont care about looks
Darklyvan , Tagmstr , powerqueen , True Pleasures , Teacookie , Do emu , PeaceToTheMiddleEast
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Ill explain why below. (or other)
Missmarc , Rin (aka Nire) , Rossie , Kitka , charletnarouh , aliceinthehole , gloomybear
7
Total votes: 53 (43 voters)
Poll is closed
02/15/2012
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Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
it does not really matter
02/15/2012
Tagmstr Tagmstr
It doesn't matter to me
02/15/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I keep the lights on and do pay some attention. Perhaps that's why the look matters more to me? Never thought about it much. I don't like realistic looking dildos in the looks department. The colored ones or artistic ones just appeal to my senses more. My husband has a penis. If I want to see a penis, I'll ask him to pull down his pants. *shrug*
02/15/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
I think feeling is a lot more important than look. I'd buy a dildo that feels great than a dildo that looks great. To me, look is just a bonus. It's nice knowing something beautiful is penetrating me though
02/15/2012
Slickdick Slickdick
i like a realistic colored one...to me it adds to the fantasy. i have 4 dildos that are my 'Black Guys" and 2 that are my "White Guys". If that makes any sense...i might just be wierd
02/15/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I often masturbate during the daylight hours, or have at least one light on, so I do pay attention to color. I know that realistically-colored dildos are easier for me to fantasize with, but I never really could figure out why I sometimes prefer brightly-colored toys instead. I like both categories about equally, I'd say.
02/15/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I like toys of pretty much any color, except for pink or anything that's sort of gross-looking like pea soup color.
02/15/2012
arduous arduous
I'm not really keen on lifelike dildos, but I know a lot of people like them because they fit into fantasies better. I don't usually masturbate in the dark, but still like a toy where the creators put some effort into the aesthetic.
02/15/2012
Rossie Rossie
I never buy realistic dildos, I'm only interested in specifically shaped dildos/vibes that can provide additional stimulation to me. I value the function of a dildo more than how pretty it looks, but of course I don't mind a dildo that has quality and looks pretty at the same time.
02/15/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like just about anything.
02/15/2012
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Sometimes, I prefer the realistic toys, sometimes...not.
02/15/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
clickie
02/15/2012
Positwist Positwist
Appearance is HUGE for me. I can deal with a toy I don't like the look of, but ehhh. Pleasure for me is the whole experience, not just the physical stimulation. I don't play in the dark much, with toys or people, 'cause I like the visuals.
02/16/2012
Sir Sir
Most people aren't in the dark, actually, I do not know where you got that idea. A lot of people play in full light.
02/16/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
I like the color
02/16/2012
Kitka Kitka
I like having color options because it makes them more interesting and I very rarely play in the dark.
02/16/2012
Howells Howells
Why would I be in the dark? Why wouldn't I pay attention? It matters to me.
02/16/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
I usually don't use my toys in the dark, and sometimes when I'm spending $50+ on a toy I want something that's the complete package, pun intended
02/16/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
I like colors
02/16/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
I don't typically play in the dark. I'm a lesbian and I don't like penises. I like penetration but not dick. So I don't want something that looks like it could be part of a man in my bed or inside me. Pretty colors or artful shapes are much preferred over anything that looks realistic. I won't use anything flesh colored or anything with balls. I'd consider a semi-realistic shape if it wasn't a realistic color and as long as it didn't have balls. Especially if it's in a harness, I don't want it to look like it could be part of me or my partner, that's just squicky to me.
03/12/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I prefer to play with the lights on.

I like toys that looks good because i'm kind of girly... but I want something that makes me feel good. So, if it looks good and feels great, it's perfect!

I don't want anything too realistic because... well, that's what my boyfriend is for, right? lol
03/12/2012
dhig dhig
colour, but it's not a huge deal
03/12/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Maxx
...if you cant realy see it? Most people are in the dark and you dont really pay attention to what is down there. So what is the difference between a colored dildo or one that looks real? Explain below.
i disagree about most people having sex in the dark.

personally, i can't have sex in the dark, it will trigger me. even if it didn't i think i'd definitely prefer at least some lighting - i want to see what's going on, i'm a visual learner, and visually turned on (or off, for that matter).

i prefer abstract-looking dildos and will never fuck a real-looking one due to my personal aversion to real penises. also, i think the detached penis thing is kinda creepy.

the abstract ones can be so pretty they're downright artful, and i have a strong preference to surround myself only with things that are visually pleasing, or artistic.
03/12/2012
tA tA
I really like the funky colors. I don't fuck in the dark all the time.
03/12/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
i like it to FEEL good. screw the color.
03/12/2012
calliope calliope
Colors are fun. I don't think I could ever use anything realistic.
03/12/2012
Mwar Mwar
We almost always have lights on. I like colors that aren't too "loud" if we're using them during sex, but i don't like them realistically shaped.
03/12/2012
Do emu Do emu
For some people it really matters. Personally, I'm more concerned about the function.
03/13/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i disagree about most people having sex in the dark.

personally, i can't have sex in the dark, it will trigger me. even if it didn't i think i'd definitely prefer at least some lighting - i want to see what's going on, i'm ... More
AMEN!
03/13/2012
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