Would you rather have an extra firm or an extra soft dildo?

jr2012 jr2012
in my experience I prefer soft....I wish I could say exactly WHY, but they just feel better to me! I'm not a huge g-spot gal, and soft is great to thrust with and feels decently realistic.
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I use a lot of glass toys. Sometimes I want my Vixskin toys though.
Hummingbird Hummingbird
On the firm side with stiffness like the Mustang or Maverick. Glass is enjoyable too for me but I like the VixSkin because its forgiving texture wise.
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
The harder the better.
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Soft. I like not having to worry about being careful and being able to buck without hurting myself (bucking sometimes happens automatically with me, so hard toys can be a gamble). VixSkin's the best since you get super-softness and flexibility with enough firmness in the core for effective manipulation. I do have one or two toys that I'd call "rock hard," and while they're nice they're not an everyday thing.
Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
I prefer glass dildos. The combination of the hardness and the weight makes them incomparable to any other dildo material I have used.
Yup, pretty much how I feel. I love the solid feel of a glass toy!
spiced spiced
I answered "soft" but I really want something in-between, something as much like an erect penis as possible, with a strong internal firmness, but also an exterior softness. I agree that Vixskin is excellent this way.
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I prefer harder dildos like glass. They do more for me than softer dildos.
foxinlace foxinlace
While I love love love my glass toys, after a certain point I like soft/flexible ones. Having a bit of give makes for a more realistic experience and I don't have to worry as much about hurting myself in the moment.
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Originally posted by spineyogurt
And why?
I don't care for dildo's but that could be because I haven't found the right one yet.
TJax TJax
So far, my woman has prefered hard and smooth versus soft and grippy for her dildos
karenm karenm
Hard dildos sometimes (like glass), but I prefer soft silicone.
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